Cheated on wife with her friend
I'm ashamed to say I cheated on my wife of 16 years with her friend/coworker. I went out last night with some friends to celebrate my birthday and ran into her friend at a pool hall. I was wasted and she was too. She always clings to me and talks my head off even when sober. Well last night was no different. We ended up sitting at the bar taking shots, I walked outside with her so she could hit her vape and we ended up kissing. She initiated it but I didn't stop her. I knew I fucked up, it felt so good but so wrong at the same time. She goes on to tell me how lucky my wife is to have me and she wishes she had a good man. We ended up kissing a couple more times. I didn't tell my friends it happened because I was sort of embarrassed. Toward the end of the night we ended up in her car kissing and things got pretty heated. She's telling me she wants to fuck and we might as well were already in deep shit. I came close to giving in by ultimately turned it down and im glad I did. I woke up this morning with so much regret. I'm worried she's going to tell my wife tomorrow at work. There is a small part of me that wants to just say fuck it and explore things with her but I don't want to ruin my marriage. I know for a fact she's single for a reason, she is a hand full, I need to honestly just stay away from her.
Explore things with her if she can keep her mouth shut except around your cock. Naughty secrets are the best - and will be fun for you both. What's the point of a wife if U can't cheat on her and get away with it?
You should tell your wife what happened before her friend does. Emphasize that you did not have sex with her, that you were drunk and kissed and regret what happened. Better coming from you than her. The friend may want to break you up so she can have a chance
Thank you for the real advice. This is what I did. I told her, she's hurt but were working through it. You are exactly right, she is definitely the type to split us up to get me. There's a reason she's a single mom still living with her parents. God bless you.