My girlfriend is stronger than I am

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 years now. We started dating during our sophomore year in high school. She was about 5’7-5’8 when we first started dating, and I was 5’9. She has always been very into physical fitness, even from the beginning of the relationship. She was a year-round volleyball player and would even lift every once in a while. I was always a scrawny skinnier guy, mostly due to the fact that I would run cross country year-round. Despite this, I was always stronger than she was due to just being a male. Fast forward through time, she continues growing and getting taller, I stay the same. Around our senior year of high school, I’m still 5’9 (maybe 135lbs on a good day), and she’s clocking in at 5’11 and 160lbs. At this point we are about equal strength, I was maybe still a bit stronger. Towards the end of the school year, I decided to go to a smaller college so I would be able to continue running cross country. My girlfriend received a few offers to play volleyball from some smaller schools. However, almost out of the blue, she received an offer to row at a large BIG10 school. Despite not having any experience rowing, she took the opportunity. Throughout our long distance relationship, we stayed connected and talked. We talked about our work regiments, stress of balancing sports with school, and how we were improving. She had been lifting, rowing, running, and eating for her bulk nonstop. Meanwhile I was trying to stay at a lower weight in order to keep myself ready for running. One day, about 2 months in she asks me if I wanted to see how her muscles developed. I thought sure, why not? Holy shit. Her arms and back looked insane. I was genuinely at like a loss for words. I knew she had started on creatine, but she looked like a totally new person. She told me her lifting numbers and how’d they changed. I was shocked. She went from bench pressing 130 (same as my max bench) to benching 170 FOR REPS. I told her that was impressive and asked how much she weighed from all the muscle she put on. She said she was weighing in at 195 because of the bulk and suspected she’d even gotten taller. Keep in mind, I was 127 at this point. She weighed almost 70 pounds more than me, and she still had another month of training before I’d even see her in-person for our Thanksgiving break. As the month went on, she continued telling me about her training and diet and whatnot. The whole time I was wondering if she realized the inevitable truth of how much stronger than me she was. I never asked or talked about it. But I was worried in case she’d think differently of me because of this. Eventually, it was time for Thanksgiving break. I got home the day before she did, and I was planning on picking her up at the airport the following day. I was nervous about seeing her, wondering what she might think when she sees me. Would she still be attracted to me? What would happen? Soon enough, the time to pick her up came. I drove to the airport, picked up some flowers on the way (maybe that would help her cope with the truth). I parked the car and went to go sit by the exit she’d be leaving out of. About 20 minutes pass, and I see a group leaving the exit, in that group I see her. She has the biggest smile on her face, along with about 60 pounds of luggage. After seeing me she ran up and gave me a big hug. I was delighted to see her, obviously, but it also made me a little nervous. She felt physically bigger than before, was squeezing me really tight, and her back felt ROCK SOLID. After breaking away from the hug I really noticed how big she had gotten. Not only did she look physically stronger, she looked even taller than before. All that I could say is “you look really good”. She just laughed and said let’s go get some food. In the car ride I asked her if she had gotten taller or if it was just my imagination. She told me that she felt taller than before, but never measured herself but if she had to make a guess she was now about 6’0 - 6’0.5. We grabbed food and hung out for the rest of the day. That night we were planning on doing some things that girlfriends and boyfriends do when they haven’t seen each other in a while (if you know what I mean). But before doing this I knew I had to bring up the elephant in the room. I told her about my suspicion that she was stronger than me right now. And I was very surprised by her reaction to say the least. She just laughed and said yeah I think that’s pretty obvious. I was surprised and I said it’s not that obvious, like I’m still a decently strong guy. (I knew she was way stronger but I needed to defend my confidence). And she said okay fine, let’s settle it then and if I’m stronger you have to buy me breakfast and vise versa. I agree, not really knowing what she meant. We started with an arm wrestle, I got PULVERIZED in probably less than 3 seconds. We then wrestled for real, and I still got destroyed, I’m talking like she was play fighting for fun, and I was really trying. Still beat me in like 10 seconds. Lastly, she said okay how about this, if you can pick me up and hold me like a baby, I’ll say you win. I could barely lift her off the ground. It did not work at all. She then picked ME up like a baby and told me I owed her breakfast. So at that point I straight up asked her, so you don’t care that you are stronger than me? And she replied that she not only didn’t care, she LIKED it. She liked the idea of her being the dominant figure in the relationship. I then just said alright. That night I had the GREATEST sex of my life. If you’ve never done that with a girl significantly stronger than you, I would highly recommend. After that, my worries we’re completely gone. We continued having a very fun, healthy relationship. We are now both Sophomores in college. She is now even stronger than before. Bench pressing about 215 pounds, while I’m still doing 130. But despite this, we are happier than ever.

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