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My wife and I stopped having sex sometime ago, when she went through the change. Her new life was with her Church and she left me high and dry. So much so that she moved out of the bedroom and left me to my own devices. On all other fronts she kept up, running the house, following up with my mother's health issues. But don't touch her, she pulled back.
It was in this environment that I started porn to get off. After a while I got tired of the same porn girls and started cruising around the gay sights. I found out that I liked watching guy's fucking, especially men my age, with a man on top of the other man's back. I relived the moment, always the man on the bottom, and got off masturbating as often as I could get away with it.
About that time I got a call from an old business associate. He had retired and was working with a multinational charity and wanted to know if I was willing to help them with a contribution. It was church based, and part of their mission was to go to these third world countries and build a church for the town. I was bored and had the time and I agreed, and my first mission was to Ecuador up in the mountains.
We shared a room at the small hotel and I was sitting on the bed getting my socks on and he stood across from me still naked from his shower from down the hall. No thought, nothing, I just reached over and grabbed his still wet dick and put it in my mouth. I sucked, I sucked him and he got hard. I took my shorts off an laid on the bed face down and he got on top of me and with more than a little bit of trouble he got his dick in me and gave me my first fuck.
He was a kisser and cock sucker and a fucker and now that we were open to it we missed dinner in order to lay around naked making out and jerking each other off. We did missions to Nicaragua, to Ethiopia, to Mexico. More than once on the airplane he grabbed my crotch under the tray table to remind me who was boss. I stopped watching porn and lived it. My wife had her Church work and I had mine. And that way we got along fine.
I already plan on it. The wife has begun the change. If sex totally stops I will have a male lover. I’ve done it before amd have no problem going that way.
When we were teens my wife couldn't wait to crawl into the back of my 69 Barracuda fastback. Slap an 8 track into the Craig Power Mac and listen to 70's music from 4 speakers.
Come to find out that when I left her have my car when I was away she put a few guys through their paces in that back seat.
Back to the point longer we were married the less intrest she had in sex. Then menopause hit, little went to none, and if you loved me, really loved me then you wouldn't push me.
Then I moved out of the bedroom as throw the covers off, pull them on don't get near me, don't touch me.
So when I hit 64 and had a heart attack and have ED, she's like what is she supposed to do when she wants intimacy ? Is she supposed to live like a nun ?
They don't remember that she had me living like a priest for more than 20 years.
Boy so much of this sounds familiar.
34 years ago I married a very sexy and strikingly beautiful 34 yr old blonde with blue eyes and a very sexy mind! I was 41 and in heaven with this girl...
She had had a very active sex life before we married. Some 3 doz men's names she could remember had fucked her - twice that number she'd given head and/or hand-jobs to.
The sex was superb - she was a big flirt - and that turned me on.
At 50 she was still the sexiest woman at church and at school functions! Great ass, legs and butt in her shortish skirts.
Then she hit menopause at 51 - we had sex twice that week .....and then it was over.
No kissing, no sex. she came to bed in walking shorts. I saw her nipples one time in the next 16 years. . She began reading the bible every day and became very religious. If an R rated movie showed any heavy kissing, petting - faking sex - she quickly turned it off.
We used to enjoy a lot of sexy talk at bed-time. Obviously that is no longer "appropriate". She says I may touch her all I want - as that is her duty as a wife.
Yeah - it is like touching a corpse.
Her vagina?.....if it weren't for porn on the Dell - I wouldn't remember what one looks like!
She got pissed when I suggested separate beds.
I am still amazed that I didn't divorce or have an affair on her - I'm not like that - and then there are our 2 kids. They've no idea that a touchless marriage is not the ideal or the norm.
This is a dream if mine! Travel, keep the house but sleep with y travel buddy, male ir female. Prefer male so the wife will just not even start shit about it. I had a female travel buddy but she and her husband retired and moved to another state. It was perfect she was sexy, but with just as much to lose financially as I was. They're coming for a visit not sure how or if we can get away again??? I need a new travel buddy bad! If a man he has to be clean and groomed. Maybe one day! My wife sure won't fuck me anymore! Hasn't in years!