I secretly enjoyed being catcalled by randos
I am a girl in my twenties , and I do know that catcalling is a form of harassment. I know I look good and I do not need anyone validation. But sometimes , I lowkey enjoy being catcalled so I go out wearing some kind of loose and revealing clothes . There is a brothel near a certain neighbourhood I know and I chose to buy snacks at the grocery store next to brothel . And sometimes I intentionally go out in revealing night wear / revealing my bras or no bra at all, wearing in seethrough nightwear with untidy makeup . Random men on streets stared at me , a guy who walked in opposite direction whispered me that he wanna smash me . They thought I work at brothel because of the way I dress and location. A big fat guy called me " mami lets fuck " and I feel turned on . It does not have to be hot guy to make me wet . I feel more turned on when the guys who harass me are old and ugly . It makes me feel so cheap and I love this feeling . Everytime I think if some of those people who thought me as a hooker , I feel happy that I have my evening walks showing my tits out . or maybe I m exhibitionist ? Because I love when men looks at my tits and my lower parts as I wear very short skirts and flirty tops and then they start making sexualized & degrading comments & names which makes me happy.
I worked as a server at a sports bar in the late 1990s. I got plenty of compliments and I can't tell you how many times I had a guy rub or squeeze my butt. I enjoyed every bit if it.
Don't take this wrong the guys doing the rubbing and squeezing were regulars and I told them I didn't mind. However, it is nice to walk by a group of guys and one of them smacks you on the butt. lol
Somewhere along the way it's been made into a crime for guys to notice women, even if they're a bit crass at times. I've never been hurt by somebody saying something to me, whistling, or even a slap or pinch on the bottom. I wish it was the old days. I mean, if it ever got annoying, it is possible for us to say stop it and whether they do or not doesn't hurt us. I also don't think pinching is a gateway into criminal sex.
28 year old female here and wish i had an old dirty man as a boss that would touch me at work.
When I was a paralegal years and years ago, one of the attorneys would come behind my desk and put his hands on my shoulders. Over time he'd start giving me shoulder rubs. Then he was coming up behind me and whispering naughty things in my ear, with his lips so close to my neck. Finally he started reaching around and squeezing my tits. I loved those days. It never went further than that but we both enjoyed it.
I'm a 52 year old female and work in an office setting. When I was in my early 20s I enjoyed getting whistled at and complimented. Heck! Even though I was married, I never minded a little brush of the hand against my butt. Heck, my boss would even squeeze my butt when no one was in his office. Did I scream harassment? NO Did I sit on his desk and take notes? YES! It was how we acted back then.
Did I bend down to allow a peek down my blouse to see my new lace bra? YES!
Did I bend over on purpose so he could smack by butt when no one was in his office? YES
Same! It's crazy how men are totally afraid to even look at us below the chin anymore. I'm sure it went to far sometimes with some people but I never had it go too far and I've never had a friend tell me of it going to far. I never had a guy not stop when I told him to stop. I LOVE being a female and being feminine and getting attention.
My wife said that one time her wealthy boyfriend laid money on the night stand in her bedroom - after spending a couple hours fucking her.
I thought maybe this made her mad - or feel cheap.
Later she admitted that this turned her on - but she made him think she was insulted!
She still gets hot thinking about it, years later.
Thank you! There is hope for the younger generation.
Female/48
I went to college in the 90s. Mini skirts & crop tops were in style.
I busted my a$$ between classes at the gym or running to keep my stomach flat so I could rock the look with a belly ring and a bikini at the beach.
Guys whistled back then. I enjoyed the attention! I still do.
I got my first job at the firm I'm still with today. Ally McBeal was popular when I first interviewed. The style was business suits with very short skirts. The two men in their 40s hired me on the spot. They flirted and guess what....I flirted back! I shook my ass to get raises and it worked. I went to lunch with them and golfed with them on the weekends. Did my husband care. No. He would go with us.
Recently, I've had to testify before HR that one of the male co-workers was not being inappropriate when all he said to a young girl 'you look nice today.' That was it! She accused him of sexual harassment and said it was the same as asking for sex!! REALLY?
Why is it not appropriate to flirt in the work place any longer?
Flirting and teasing is good for self esteem.
Sister, I'm right there with you. I'm a little older than you but yeah, same with wearing cute clothes. Nowadays it's gone too damn far. We all know when it's seriously inappropriate behavior. Girls these days just don't know how to take a compliment and control the narrative when they need to. It's ridiculous. Men have been turned into wimps and I don't blame them!
Very good girl!
Good girl!
I came here to say the exact same thing! Ha