Free now
I used to feel guilty about cheating on my wife. I wasn’t happy with her lack of attention combined with total indifference with sex. Excuses, it was all in my head, going through menopause had her off balance, her birth control method interfered with her sex drive, and I was either too attentive or not enough.
Well after 5 years of a very sexless marriage which she seemed to be totally agreeable to, I had a relationship with a girl that I worked with. She beat me (figuratively) with that information. I was stupid enough to tell her. She just totally froze me out, was amenable to divorce but she didn’t want one.
Then I began to notice how obsessed she had become with her laptop. Here she was having an affair even before I had one. Not only was she fucking this guy on occasion, she had fucked him when we started going out, also after we married and I was out of the country. In fact her conversations with him cast a lot of doubt in my mind about who are oldest child’s father really is. Quite a feat for someone that maintained she was a virgin when we meet, and I was the only one that she’d ever had sex with.
That she was captivated by him was obvious as she had archived all their conversations for more than 8 years. Of course I copied them all to a flash drive. Free now
5 years? Please! Try doing it for 30. I’m divorced now thank god.
I think you both will be better off divorced. Then write your life story on literotica