Never thought it would happen

My wife and I have been talking about being poly. I had been thinking about bringing it up for months but wasn’t sure how she would take it. When i did bring it up, she asked if I just wanted to see her with another man or if she could have an actual boyfriend. I told her either. She said that she wasn’t opposed to having a fuck buddy but she would rather have someone who would want to do things when I’m not available.

Then after a few weeks of talking, she asked if I just wanted a girlfriend and wanted her to have a boyfriend as an excuse. I told her I didn’t want another woman. She asked how that would work. I told her I wanted to try being with another man. That was an immediate conversation ender. Then a few days later she said she wanted more discussion. I told her that it would be cool having a buddy to swap blowjobs. Men tend to have similar sex drives. That she wrapped her head around.

I had a buddy lined up 3 days later. Told the wife that one of the guys at work hit on me. He has been hitting on me for years and I kept telling him that I’m married and my wife would freak out if we got caught. Well, this time, I took him up on his offer. I didn’t tell the wife that. Just that he hit on me. She said, “Do you want it?” I said, “I dunno. Maybe.” She said, “You two should go out sometime.” I said, “Pretty sure it won’t start that way.” She asked why and I said, “Probably going to be sex first and then who knows later. I don’t see myself as having a boyfriend. Just someone for sexual release.”

Anyway, onto the main reason for this post. She randomly texts friends all the time. Well, she was texting more than usual. I asked who she was talking to. She said it was a guy from work. So a few days pass. Then she texts while she’s at work. I had just gotten home. She said she would be late coming home. I said, “Working late?” She said, “No. Rick asked me for a drink.” I said, “Oh ok.”

Well, she didn’t come home till 4 hours later. I said, “Must have been a few drinks.” She said, “2 drinks. But that’s not why I’m so late.” I said, “Oh yeah?” She didn’t say anything else. I said, “So?” She said, “You really wanna know?” I said, “Yeah.” She said, “We went back to his place.” I said, “You had sex with him?” She said, “Yep.” I said, “Oh bullshit. You didn’t sleep with me on the first date.” She said, “Well, I didn’t know you either. I know rick. Want proof? His cum is still in me.”

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