Post prostatectomy

I’ve had my prostate removed and now cannot get hard even though very aroused and despite taking viagra which seems to have no affect. My partner is also going through the menopause which means we don’t ever actually partake in any sexual activity. I can still orgasm (dry obviously) I have found it easier to cum whilst wearing my partners lace panties as it’s easier to stroke tease and tickle myself through them, I do still get wet and have very powerful orgasms. I was wondering if anyone else has or is going through the same sort of problem even if it’s not as a result of losing your prostate and what do you do that fulfils your sexual needs. Ladies do you have any thoughts on this.

Apr 9

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