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We have a fairly normal marriage although frequency of sex has slowed. I have been a cross dresser since my teens. My wife fully accepts my hobby. Last night, preparing for bed, during pillow talk, I was trying to get her interested in fooling around but she wasn't interested.
She was stroking my admittedly small penis and told me that she knows I need more physical attention than she cares to give. She said that she was giving me permission to find a fuck buddy with certain restrictions. My buddy must be a man and I must be the bottom. She said that she knows how much I enjoy being pegged and that I will love a real mans penis better.
I tried to negotiate but she said those are the rules if I wanted to have more sex. She said my penis is hers alone. I asked for assurance she wouldn't be ashamed of me or lose respect for me if I did it. She said, "I'm holding your penis while you're wearing a night gown and panties and I love you to death! I want you to have the fun you deserve and with a man, I won't get jealous. I'm serious about this but those are the rules."
I have some thinking to do.
Your wife is cheating on you. She's going tl turn you into her girlfriend. Eventually, the only sex you & her will have, is you eating her cunt.
I told my wife about my sucking s friend in Jr high,, she knows him as well, several years later we run into him at a New Year’s Eve party,, she tells me to ask him to come home with us,, I did , he said sure,, after I told her he said ok,, she starts hanging onto him dancing, whispering and laughing, getting handsy, she starts kissing him flirting openly, all our other friends were noticing her getting a little to close ,, telling people I don’t mind, telling em we’re old friends,, later on they end up disappearing for about 10 minutes, she come back outside on the deck and gives me a kiss,, gives me a wink and ask how did it taste, I leaned into her ear and asked did she suck his dick, she says loud enough for anyone listening,, yes I did,, my friend comes out brings me a beer and says , dude you got one fine woman,, I said ya I know, he then ask why I told her I use to suck his dick, I told him I told her this years ago,, he says , well your gonna suck it tonight , after I fuck your wife,, all I could do was look at his crotch,, he grasps me by the back and says it’s ok,, it’ll be fun,, the rest of the night him and my wife act like their bf- gf dancing grab assing , kissing a little, then my wife grabs him by the hand and says, let’s go home honey, I just follow them out with everyone knowing I was gonna be cuckold,, he had a little to much to drink do my wife says will all go in my truck,, they get in the back seat, my wife tells him to pull his pants down before I even started the truck,, all the way home she’s telling me no wonder you sucked his dick the first time he told you to, he told her I would suck him, let him fuck me, but he never would suck me,, he told her all thru HS I would ask him to meet somewhere so I could suck his dick , this went on until he moved away for a few years,
Ouch!
My wife knew that I was bi long before we ever got married and she was kinda slutty she loved to get fucked by a lot of guys so after we were married we had an agreement that she could still be with other men and I could keep being a sissy bottom for guys as long as I stayed a bottom she didn't want me to fuck anyone else with my cock but her. She even helped me keep my body smooth from the neck down and she buys me paintes and thigh high stockings to wear every day. It's worked out great for us because we both love cock even though she gets fucked more than I do.
The thing is, I'm not bi. I started watching some bi porn with cross dressers and it doesn't creep me out so maybe I'll give it a try. I am nervous. We have a bi friend that is a person my wife suggested but I'm scared he will assume a dominant role in our relationship even when we're not sexually engaged and I'm worried he will want to be with my wife too. She says that's not going to happen and said she would make arrangements to not be home so its not an issue. She assumes I'd want to be dressed when I do it (I don't go out dressed) and thought that would make me more comfortable if I decide to try it. I go from excited to freaking out and back.
Anyway I am looking for thoughts on doing this with a current friend or should we avoid that situation?
My wife and I have had the same arrangement for the past 15 years. I have been with about 10 guys but I have two I hookup with often. She loves when I tell her about it and show her my freshly fucked ass with their cum deposited in me.