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Need more than he is giving
I'm 36, have a 4yo daughter, married 10 years. My husband is a nice guy, he really is. I love him, although he's not quite meeting my needs at this point. I hate to say that.
I'm the breadwinner of the family, work at a lucrative job at a corporation, and my job requires long hours and is stressful. I do a lot of adverse shit to people in my job and it is hard. My husband is semi-employed and helps a lot with the house and kid, so he is somewhat of a house husband. I don't mind. I make plenty of money and he works when he can. (Get a college degree, people. My husband didn't.) He helps with our daughter so we don't need day care. He is a gem of a person and he performs well sexually when he can.
I don't have a lot of rules for him, but one of them is when I get home I want to get fucked. Really fucked. Right away. It helps me reduce stress, relax, and feel more mindful about things. I need a real cock in my pussy daily to massage it out. (Toys are boring.) I expect him to have dinner on the table too, and he's pretty good about that. But I often say, "I need to get fucked, and you have to give it to me now. Get it hard."
He sometimes can, but recently he has not been getting it done. It's frustrating as hell. It has gotten to the point where I'm about to ask a male friend of mine to help out. I never wanted it to get to this point, but here we are. My husband is not fucking me like he should. And it's not like I'm not attractive. I used to model and still probably could at a MILF level. I look great.
I'm not trying to cheat on him, but he's got to do his job.
Some years ago, I worked for a short while with a woman who said that she and her husband had a "role reversal" in their marriage. Basically, her husband was useless. She worked to support the family, and he stayed home doing the bare minimum to keep house and raise the kids. She also said he was next to useless in bed. I took care of her sexual needs for her for a while. I love married women!
Life in America... Where you are free to be lonely and unhappy.
A woman has to do whatever she can just to be satisfied sexuality i love my husband and he is a great man but honestly he's just can't keep up with me in the bedroom. He is good for about 10 minutes then he is cumming and he is done for the night. I have a boyfriend that last a long time and gives me multiple orgams when we have sex but he is a lasy ass all he is good for is his dick that is very nice. I spend a couple of days with my boyfriend then go home to my husband for a few days. It's almost like having two husband's.
I got my wife a Sybian sex machine, she can screw herself silly.
LoL.. so I started jumping my pillow for DIY orgasms when I was like almost ten years old. My husband, just like yours, is away long hours and only available on weekends, but with the kids home and the other things that go into raising a family, our sex life is not what I have hoped it would have been. My husband has no idea that as soon as our two kids a off on their school bus I visit with my pillow and my porn sites. :(
My wife needs more than I can give her so she has a regular boyfriend she uses for sex. It works for us.
I'm married, 47 w/three kids, worked for the same company for 20+ years.
I started out as an intern. Since I began my career with this company, I've had countless workplace affairs with bosses and managers while on company travel. I'm not ashamed to admit I've benefited by way of bonuses, raises and promotions over the years.
I must also add that I love my husband and would never leave him for another.
As far as I know, he has no clue of my affairs and I've never denied him sex when asked.
My advice. It's just sex. Have fun and always use protection.