Recently my wife went from vanilla and not initiating to wanting me. We opened up a whole new world. I shared many thoughts, fetishes and desires with her, and got her to tell me about her sexual past. It really turned me on, i couldnt keep my hands off her, couldnt keep from thinking of her, wanting her. Apparently i may have shared too many thoughts, fetishes and desires because we are back where we were. I dream, fantasize and want her to be part of my sexual life, but she is unwilling. Guess im back to taking matters in my own hands.