How do I tell him
My wife got high on some weed last night and when we were getting started with some 4 play she accidently admitted to having an affair. We stopped and started talking about this and after a lot of cussing and angry words and tears she also admitted to me that my son was not min. She will not tell me who she says it will not help it will only make it worse. my son is 10 and will always be my son even though he did not come from me. My wife does not want me to tell him but I believe that one day he will need to know the truth. I am devistated my family was just fine this morning and in less than 30 min tonight it has been shattered. The question is do I tell my son or not?
She needs to fess up and fully confess everything. Dates, times, who, where and how. Then she must accept whatever consequences may be. If it’s a deal breaker for you so be it. She must agree to your terms whether you let her stay or go. This is some heavy duty shit. You need to be fully informed so you can make a decision on when, how or what to tell your son.