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Wish my wife was a swinger
So when I first got together with my wife we had sex nonstop and it still doesn’t stop to this day 4 years later but you see here’s the problem. I’m 28 and she is 30 so we are both still young but I don’t get the same sensation from her while having sex as I used to. I have to think about something truly taboo in order to get completely turned on like I used to with her. Normally it’s girls that I know it would be wrong to bang like my sister in law or my cousins fiancé (who is a bit on the bbw side but she is still hot) or I play volleyball a lot and I see tons of girls with those spandex shorts on and I think about one of them. We had an opportunity one night where we ran into a friend of her sisters and her bf and they were swingers...well they starting telling us about it and it was turning me on I wanted to take that chick and bang her but I can’t I refuse to cheat on my wife because I do love her whole heartedly. I just wish that she did stuff a little more taboo to accommodate my needs but she thinks that stuff is wrong or disgusting. I guess my question is how do I get rid of these cravings and is this normal for anyone else?
I am over 60 now but a few years ago I took a second wife. Now they each seem to think they are in a competition to satisfy me better than the other. They'll do different things with me but one of them will get real kinky even involving animals. It's the best thing that ever happened.
We all have different desires and needs. Have you thought about doing roleplay with your wife? Maybe try talking again about it but this time ask her is there anything she has ever wanted to try? It's very easy to make things just about yourself. Some people find it difficult to discuss how they feel or reveal hidden desires even with partner. Have a couple of drinks and then talk.
That’s not a bad idea. Thanks!