Affair with husband’s boss

I have been married for a little over 16 years. We have 2 beautiful children together. We have a happy marriage and love each other immensely. My husband makes crazy good money so I don’t work. The only problem is I have been having an affair with a man for almost 5 years now. I don’t know why I do it. Probably for the danger and the excitement. My boyfriend is an attorney and is a founding partner for a large law firm. My problem is my husband is also an attorney and will be working for my lover starting January 4. I panicked a little and told my boyfriend that I’m not sure I could deal with that. He said it’ll be fine. We can carry on as usual.

Do you think I should end this affair or do you think it would adversely effect my husband’s employment or worse if he told my husband? What should I do? Please advise.

-Panicky in the MW

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  • "We have 2 beautiful children together. We have a happy marriage and love each other immensely. My husband makes crazy good money so I don’t work."

    how do thank him? how do you show him your love towards him? explain to me how do you love your husband? hows the kids??

  • How did you met the other guy? hows it going now?

  • End it, tell him the truth, be a good woman :)

  • We both know you are going to keep this thing going. Now you will be able to find many more ways to cheat on your clueless husband. Who knows , hubby will probably do very well at his new job and you will make sure of that.

  • Holy crap. You really fucked that one up. No good way out of that situation.

  • I found out a couple years ago that my wife of 6 years had cheated on me on several occasions with the same guy. The guy was our neighbour and I think it only stopped when he moved. We dated for about 6 months when i let her move in with me. She was 22 then and had always been such a looker so she got noticed alot. Our neighbour was single about 35 and they hit off well I guess. So she confessed that it began about 5 months after she moved in with me. She had quit smoking but went to talk to him and sneak one from him. It became a regular thing and then they even had drinks together. So after admitting to having a little sexual attraction to him and he being single and would happily fuck her and she hot as hell they ended up in his bed. I guess on his performance it didn't stay a one off as she only had to text him and when I was out she would go round for 1/2 hours. She lost count how much they did it but she reckons it was at least twice a week for an 8 month period. It's safe to say I didn't have what he had and wasn't anywhere near as good as him as I seem to recall the many times she wasn't in the mood for sex and made up excuses but why would she want more after she had her fill of him.
    This was all before we were married but then she said it even carried on after we got married,not as much as she was feeling guilty.
    Then the guy moved away and she managed to keep her pants on but I noticed the change in her. We decided to have kids and she was so broody and it made her extra horny and she wanted it almost daily,so that worked out well.

  • It worked out well until the next guy comes along.

  • Well she is a mum now so I think it's safe but I'd probably never find out now,she does go to the gym alot too.

  • I have been sleeping with one of my husband's business partners ever since they started the business over eight years ago. The man's wife is one of my best friends. He and I really tried stopping about four years ago but we couldn't stay away from one another. In fact, trying to quit only made the desire stronger, and it led us to even greater risks, and, ironically, deeper and darker perversions. If you try to end it, you will fall more completely in love with each other. He is too much a part of your life to be removed. My therapist acknowledged it would be easier for me to divorce my husband than to separate from my lover. I sense you are the same: the thrill of the taboo act is part of it for women like us, but like me, I feel that you truly love your man. And perhaps also like me, your lover is also far better hung than your husband. Creating "romance" is much much easier than finding a gigantic schwanz, and that's sad, no? I wish you love and lust! Enjoy yourself and your men. All of them.

  • You love your husband but would rather divorce him then stop getting dick from somebody else?? check your brain

  • Just end it and fall in love more with your lover so you can stop humiliate your husband

  • I feel sorry for your poor clueless husband. Who knows, he may get lucky and find someone who cares for him

  • You should stop

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