Affair with husband’s boss
I have been married for a little over 16 years. We have 2 beautiful children together. We have a happy marriage and love each other immensely. My husband makes crazy good money so I don’t work. The only problem is I have been having an affair with a man for almost 5 years now. I don’t know why I do it. Probably for the danger and the excitement. My boyfriend is an attorney and is a founding partner for a large law firm. My problem is my husband is also an attorney and will be working for my lover starting January 4. I panicked a little and told my boyfriend that I’m not sure I could deal with that. He said it’ll be fine. We can carry on as usual.
Do you think I should end this affair or do you think it would adversely effect my husband’s employment or worse if he told my husband? What should I do? Please advise.
-Panicky in the MW
Hey again its me who asked you all the questions before, if you are here! How’s it going?? Give me some details please
I think it’s hot as fuck. I don’t think I have the nerve to cheat on my husband but love the idea of some new cock.
Allright tell us about your needs, how old are you and why do you want to cheat??
I just think it would be exciting to have sex with someone new. My husband is the only man I’ve ever fucked. I am 24
Ok, how long have you been married?? How old is hubby?
Married 5 years. Hubby is 32
Kids??
1 daughter who is 2
Your husband is he good looking?? Great in bed?? Have you somebody in mind when you think about cheating??
My husband is very good looking. I’m pretty sure he is very good in bed but I have nothing to compare it to. He is my first and only fuck. Sometimes I think about his best friend when we are having sex.
Okej why his friend are you guys flirtig?? Are you hot?? How do you look lol.
How long have you been in a relationship with him??
I think it’s fucking hot. I wish I had a side guy. I love my husband but I love sex too.
Might be one of the reasons your hubby makes great money
Update?? How did it end for you??
It hasn’t ended. We still see each other. I just don’t know how to stop.
How often do you cheat??
About 3 times a week. More or less.
How often do you have sex with your husband??
Maybe once or twice a month.
Wtf hahah, why so little???
My husband just doesn’t want sex near as much as I do. Or my boyfriend. My boyfriend said he would be with me every day if he could.
Do you go too his boat everytime you cheat??
No. Sometimes to an apartment that he has.
Ok if it was like this I would cheat too
We are still seeing each other but I hardly ever go to my husband’s work. He doesn’t have a clue and I hope it remains that way. I know I should end this but I just can’t.
Have you been There before he started??
Not much at all.
So there’s people that can recognise you there??
Well I know most people there but no one knows I’m screwing one of the partners. I don’t want my husband questioning me on anything if I come there a lot. Would rather stay away.
People should wonder why were there before your husband started there??
How can they know you?? Why have you been there?? Why would he questioning you for thats??
Why can’t you end it??
How did you meet the man??
I met him at a party at some friends my husband knows. He just gave me a business card with his personal cell number on it and I started going out with him on his boat.
Can’t your boyfriend get into trouble if this came out, or is it okey to fuck your employes wife
I don’t know how that would work out. I don’t want to even think about that.
Why can’t you stop?? Your husband bad in bed?? Do you love he’s boss??
Thank you for answering:-)
My husband is “fair” in bed. My boyfriend is fucking amazing in bed.
Honestly are you happy? I ask because i don’t think I could be if I cheated all the time
Yes I am happy for the most part. Just nervous about the possibility of getting caught. I know it sounds selfish but if things could stay like this without me getting shamed or anyone getting hurt I would be extremely happy.
Does your love for hubby increase when cheating or opposite??
I’m very much in love with my husband. I would never leave him for my boyfriend.
So you want this going for the rest of your life??
Yes. If it’s like it is now.
Btw how old are you guys??
I am 36 and my husband is 47
And the other man??
My boyfriend (hubby’s boss) is 53
He married too??
Yes
What’s the reason he cheats??
Haven’t asked him nor do I care. That’s between them.
We both know you are going to keep this thing going. Now you will be able to find many more ways to cheat on your clueless husband. Who knows , hubby will probably do very well at his new job and you will make sure of that.
Holy crap. You really fucked that one up. No good way out of that situation.
I found out a couple years ago that my wife of 6 years had cheated on me on several occasions with the same guy. The guy was our neighbour and I think it only stopped when he moved. We dated for about 6 months when i let her move in with me. She was 22 then and had always been such a looker so she got noticed alot. Our neighbour was single about 35 and they hit off well I guess. So she confessed that it began about 5 months after she moved in with me. She had quit smoking but went to talk to him and sneak one from him. It became a regular thing and then they even had drinks together. So after admitting to having a little sexual attraction to him and he being single and would happily fuck her and she hot as hell they ended up in his bed. I guess on his performance it didn't stay a one off as she only had to text him and when I was out she would go round for 1/2 hours. She lost count how much they did it but she reckons it was at least twice a week for an 8 month period. It's safe to say I didn't have what he had and wasn't anywhere near as good as him as I seem to recall the many times she wasn't in the mood for sex and made up excuses but why would she want more after she had her fill of him.
This was all before we were married but then she said it even carried on after we got married,not as much as she was feeling guilty.
Then the guy moved away and she managed to keep her pants on but I noticed the change in her. We decided to have kids and she was so broody and it made her extra horny and she wanted it almost daily,so that worked out well.
It worked out well until the next guy comes along.
Well she is a mum now so I think it's safe but I'd probably never find out now,she does go to the gym alot too.
You should stop