Frustrated

It is called ED. It is normal for guys to go through this. Go see a doctor & a blue pill will fix this.

Same situation. The wife loves to fuck, but she just doesn't do anything for me anymore. We are both in our 50's now. I love it when she wants to suck my cock in my recliner, but other than that, I have a hard time keeping it up.

I have a hard time keeping it hard with my wife. She has put on about 80 lbs since we have been married and I would rather jerkoff than fuck her at this point. She is a disgusting pig.

Point blank ...he doesn’t find you hot . If he can jerk off he can fuck- and he obviously cheats - I’m speaking from personal experience

Speak to your husband about it and go and see a medical professional or a pharmacist. There are amazing drugs that can assist you and your husband eg Viagra. But ask for Sildenafil because it is Viagra but cheaper!

Thank you so much

I have the same problem. Whenever I try to put my penis in my wife I go soft.
The reason is that my penis is so small that I can't satisfy her and I'm so humiliated that now I can only get a stiffy when I look at pictures of pretty young girls. So now my wife dates other men while I stay home and play with myself. Now we are both satisfied.