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I need some advice
Okay soo I need some advice, me and my gf have been close to each other for 2 years but we started dating 7 months ago im 20 she's 19 she's also a virgin so I dont believe she knows alot about sexually stuff at least for what I know, but I'm not a virgin I obviously would love to have sex with her but I won't push itt until it just happens naturally. But my main question is I don't exactly know how to tell her my fetish 🤔 or if I should even tell her since she's a virgin and we haven't had sex I don't know how she will take it or maybe I should wait till we finally have sex a couple times to tell her about my fetish that way its not alot to take in ? My fetish started since I was 10 im very aroused by women wearing high heels just something about them that personally makes women look more sexier in every way possible especially in the bedroom or something simply like how women walk in heels. i randomly asked for my gfs shoe size one day I found out shes a size 6 and with out her knowing I brought her a couple pairs of high heels, she said she has never worn 6 inch heels or just heels in general in her life so I'm assuming she doesn't know how to walk in them and my navie dumbass still went out and brought her high heels but because of that I brought a variety of heel heights and different styles of heels nothinh under 4.5 inches but anyways I would love to ask her if she can wear a pair of heels for me basically just for my enjoyment i don't know how to ask her or if it's even the right thing to ask her lol they are just shoes I don't see nothing wrong with it besides the part that I have a fetish with women wearing heels, she lives in a small town near the shoreline all the beaches are extremely lonely so I was thinking we could go out on a walk at the beach or near there and I could ask her there maybe ?? Idk I would really appreciate any advice, I know I said alot so again the main question I really want advice on is "I don't know if I should tell my gf my fetish and ask her to wear high heels for me and if so yes I dont knos how to break it to her ? " thank for reading
Sorry I don't usually judge but Laaaaaaaaaaaaaaaame.
" you remember how I asked you about your shoe size.. well I went and bought you a gift.". Bring them in a backpack or something.
When you present them to her she will love it.
Ask her " would you try them on to see if you like them?. If you don't like them you can give them away or trash them. But they're yours now"
She will most likely try them out or keep them aside for later. You could also take that moment to tell her how much you love to see her in them.
Dont tell her about the fetish so soon. But make it known that you like it. My woman wears heels only to turn me on these days. It gives them better posture yes. But they can't be wearing them very often. They still get sore feet lol
So I should tell her that I think that she looks nice in heels , but I should wait on telling her it's a fetish ?
Try a simple "I bought you a gift and you will look sexy as fuck in them" approach.
Okay I'll take that into consideration
There's nothing wrong with your fetish. High heels make women's legs look better, change their whole posture, this is a proven fact. In fact, I'm not sure I'd call it a fetish. It was something I discovered many years ago. One afternoon me and a buddy were running errands with a couple of girls we knew. One of them, a quiet, mousey little thing, was wearing some clunky shoes that had square three inch heels on them, and a pair of short culottes. I found that I couldn't keep my eyes off her legs and ass, and the shoes. I finally told her I loved her shoes but, I wasn't sure why. Surprisingly she said, " It's because the heels make my legs and butt look better ! " I had to agree. Just tell your g/f that you'd like to see her in a pair of heels, and don't make a big deal out of it. Or, comment on another woman wearing heels, in her presence, and ask her if she thinks they look good. It shouldn't require a walk on a lonely beach, in fact, that sounds like a lousy place to bring it up. Good luck !
Sheshh 🤣thank you I appreciate it
Okay, well make a BIG DEAL out of it, let it DEFINE you ! Hey, here's an idea, why don't you get a job in lady's shoe retail, something you have an aptitude for, and interest in. You might make assistant manager by your forties.