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I have a new boyfriend, and we're in that phase of the relationship when we're going at it hot and heavy at least once a day. We're also learning about our likes/dislikes, and how to respond to each other's bodies. The first time we had sex it was like he was trying to be a porn star or something to impress me, but I told him to cut that shit out, slow it down, and let's make love.
I have never been able to have an orgasm from vaginal penetration, even if I'm rubbing my clit while getting fucked. I still love dick, it feels totally great in my vagina, but I just don't get off from it. Basically the only way I can orgasm is if I stretch out my legs tautly (not spread apart) and either rub my clit or, more effectively, use a vibrator on my clit.
I told this to my boyfriend, and he seemed bummed. It's like his ego is threatened that he can't get me off with his dick alone. We screwed once with me using a vibrator on my clit, and I still couldn't quite get there. After he finished I had to finish myself off. I could tell that he didn't like that I had to do that. Is there anything I can tell the guy that he's fine and I love dick, but he's never going to make me cum with his cock? No guy has gotten me off with dick. I'd like to convince him that he's okay, but I can tell it bothers him and I don't like seeing his mopey face when I'm trying to finish myself off.
My ex never could orgasm during vaginal penetration. I tried using the vibrator to get her off, she would push it away before she came. I was aways bummed out about it. After we divorced I eventually got a girfried, oh my, she was multi orgasmic and had no problems getting off with only my dick doing its job. I felt like a King.
I’m the same! Many women struggle to cum from penetrative sex or anything other than masturbation. Don’t worry, there’s nothing wrong with you or your body, your partner needs to understand it’s nothing personal and not about him.
I’m a dude and I don’t get off from bjs. I like them but I don’t cum that way. Wife took it hard at first but understood after a while. Not a big deal once they accept it as nothing personal.
Omg I would love it if I could orgasm and then watch my wife play with herself. It would get me going again for sure. She is too self conscious to masturbate in front of me.
My wife is the same, just the way it is for some women. I eat her until she comes then i get mines. Its works for us.