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I should have done it sooner
I am a 63 year old woman, more than one man has told me I am attractive, but more importantly I think that I am attractive.
Anyway my husband has CAD and since his bypass he hasn't been able to maintain an erection. His only answer was to tell me to get a lover on the side.
Last week, an opportunity presented itself to me. I finally said screw it and slept with an acquaintance. The sex was more great, I usually don't orgasm from just sex, but either because I'd gone without for so long, that I lucked out and my partner was generously endowed or just the excitement of doing something naughty I came numerous times and squirted once.
I had a few days thinking but decided to tell my husband, he wasn't upset, in fact his reaction was surprise that I hadn't done it earlier. He stopped me from telling any details, he knows that I am a private person.
Now that I am getting my feelings all together I am looking forward to our meeting next week.
Without being horrible, would you leave your hubby for your lover?
I ask because I have ED now, I’m 64, my wife eight years younger and she is rampant. She says she doesn’t want a lover but her overnights for work are becoming more frequent. She has completely stopped nagging me for sex, her use of her toys have reduced, new underwear etc so I suspect she’s seeing someone.
I can’t perform and in spite of using toy and oral sex she has told me she needs a good fucking.
I don’t mind but I don’t like the dishonesty and deceit and, in spite of me telling her it’s fine, she says she isn’t seeing anyone.
I’m from the same age and into the same situation.
I did it differently, we own a big house and our (attached) guest room is always empty. When one of my two daughters comes over they never sleep. So I suggested my husband rent out the room to a young student. My husband did object at first, but the (attached) guest room is located in such a way that we hardly notice it.
No sooner said than done, and I gave a somewhat shy, good-looking young man the room after I determined he had no girlfriend.
Of course I 'mothered' for him and I noticed that the student liked this, he was just 17 and sometimes missed his home.
Before going to sleep, I quickly went to see if everything was okay, dressed in a robe and with nothing underneath.
In the beginning I sat neatly on a chair to talk to him, but soon I sat down on the edge of the bed. First a stroke on his head, soon a kiss on his forehead where I made sure he had a good look at my breasts.
So step by step (it took me two months), I got him to give him a hand job, he really had to get over his embarrassment, but I managed to talk a lot. He got used to me doing that every night.
Followed again later by giving a blowjob and finally I could get into bed with him and had sex for the first time in a long time. I must say that I was lucky, the young student seemed to love me because especially in the beginning he could fuck me incessantly. I had to provide extra towels!
He will live with us for the next three years and I will see after that. I have no idea if my husband suspects anything, he sometimes remarks that I sometimes stay away for a long time to come to sleep. But most of the time he's already asleep when I get back to the bedroom.
So glad you are enjoying yourself again. Your husband and that acquaintance are really lucky to have you. Are you looking to make that acquaintance a regular date or look for some other lovers to enjoy?