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Is everybody Bi?
It seems natural that everybody would be Bi. Humans are geared towards sexual pleasure. And both ways give pleasure. So it seems that only modern culture makes being straight so compelling.
I had no idea I was Bi till I was 50. As far as I knew, I had zero desire for guys or dicks at all. Zero.
But after being tricked by a Ladyboy. And being in a tricky situation already naked. I reluctantly touched her dick. Mind you I was already getting mine sucked when I discovered it. So I very reluctantly reached out and touched hers just to be fair.
It was very different than I thought it would be. Heavier. And somehow a combination of feeling really friction-less as the skin moves over the hard shaft, and hard. It felt so much different than my own. Mine was a lot bigger and goes rock hard, but hers seemed heavier just because you can't really sense the weight of yourself. Like you can't feel how heavy your own arm is.
I was getting a really good blowjob. And she kept motioning for me to suck hers. I kept shaking my head no, and just stroking her. I was having mixed feelings of, OMG I'm touching a dick, I must be Bi now. It weirded me out. But it was fun to see what a dick really feels like. I guarantee you guys, you don't have any idea what a dick feels like when you touch your own.
Later with more prodding, I decided what the heck. I must already be Bi now, so I'll just put it in my mouth and see what it feels like for her benefit.
It was much more fun than I thought it would be. I didn't have any desire to suck it. I was doing it just to be fair since I was getting sucked. But I was surprised to find that it was actually fun to suck it. The head is so much more slippery and rubbery than my own feels. But I'm sure that mine is too. You just can't tell on yourself.
So with zero interest in a dick the day before, I was now a Bi guy enjoying a dick. You really can't know, unless you try. It's impossible to know, without trying. If I had never tried, I would have died knowing that I didn't like dicks. But would have never tried.
Now I think probably everyone is Bi. It feels good to receive from either sex. And dicks are actually amazing and fun to play with. I still love women and want them by far the most. I have no desire for intimacy from a guy like hugs or kisses. But dicks are fun. I love pussy and boobs more. But I admit that dicks are really fun also.
I think an ideal world for me would be to have a Bi wife. And have her bring a guy home sometimes to let both of us play with. And more times bring a woman home to play with. If there was no such thing as homophobia, that would be an ideal state.
All you who are going to disagree, you haven't tried it, so how do you know? You can't know without trying. If you try it and don't like it, I'll believe you.
In the meantime, the more a guy protests and shows homophobic reactions, the more I think that they are dying to have a cock and are fighting to push the thoughts away. And the more they post hate, the easier it is for them to get thoughts of cock out of their heads. But the louder they are, they more they really want it. Too bad society pushes people to fight against what is enjoyable.
A lot of hypocrites like myself are to frightened to openly admit that we once ended up down in front of a 18 year old with his cock fully erect in our mouths and then went home to the wife or girlfriend not quite sure why we did it . A round my friends id agree with them and put on this act knowing full well id now sucked the same young guy of several times who himself had a regular girlfriend .
I'm female, prefer guys by far and am married to one now, but everything is on a spectrum. When I was single I had my share of casual sex and once ended up in a small group thing one afternoon at a friends' apartment. I was lying on the floor sucking my friend's cock when someone parted my legs to eat me out. We were daisy chaining.
I didn't look down initially, as I was busy pleasing my guy friend, but finally I looked down I saw that a female friend was the one giving me oral. She was doing a great job, so I sure as hell didn't stop her. Was I attracted to her? Not at all. Did I object to her kindness? Not at all, she was lovely. I didn't return the favor, because she got plenty that afternoon and I'm not into girls anyway.
Different people process their sexuality different ways, and like and dislike different things. I've known gay men who claim to not be very fond of oral, but do anal, and vice versa. Their choices didn't make them more or less gay, they just had different preferences. I've known women who didn't like sucking dick. You wouldn't say they were fighting their heterosexuality, would you ?
I love a good mfm! And fmf!