Swapping: What was it like?

It was definitely a little weird for us, because neither of us had ever been with someone else before besides each other. Our first experience was with a couple we knew through mutual friends, although we weren't really friends with them at that point. We started out with some soft swapping in the same room, mostly just making out and petting and such. Once we all decided to do a hard swap, we went to different rooms. All four of us enjoyed it and have swapped again a number of times as we have become good friends. The last several times we've done it in the same room, and the two wives have also done threesomes with both of us while the other hubby watches and enjoys the show.

Me I was pleased with my friend's wife she knew how to fuck. My wife on the other hand was pissed. Seems my friend had a pencil thin cock. I tried to get the wife to do again, and she would not do it. Almost twenty years passed, and we did it with some strangers we met on vacation in Las Vegas. Once again, I was pleased and so was the wife. The next night we went to a swinger's club and the wife fucked two guys. Me I had to watch. I must admit I liked watching her fuck. When we got back to the hotel, we fucked our brains out. twenty years in the making the wife is now a slut. Well worth waiting for. We now have an open marriage. The sex is great.

I've been swinging and swapping for over 30 years and what I have found is the key to enjoying sex with others is this; forget the loving part, that is for your spouse, you are fucking other people solely for the purpose of having sex. Save the love for when you're with your spouse. And you need to establish rules, but keep them simple. For example; if you're going to fuck someone else, let your spouse know first, but if there is any reason at all why one of you doesn't want the other to fuck somebody than you don't fuck that person. That is a simple way to keep trust.

First time swinging my hubsand had a hard time getting hard, as did the guy who did me. It was pressure for them. They both relaxed to perform and were good. The thing was that you take your time and let the guys get ready on their own terms.