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My husband is acting strange.
My husband and I have been married for 30 wonderful years. He is now 58 years old, and still a very handsome man, and still the best in bed, or anywhere I've ever had. Our sex life has is awesome, oral, anal, toys, pee play, and of course we get real kinky form time to time. I've never had a cock so big and hard as my husbands.
Well enough about that. I'm 52 years old, and still attractive. My 38 D boobs are sagging some, my butt and hips are a little wider then in my youth. But giving birth to 6 kids will do that to you, 4 girls and 2 boys. I've decided to stop trying to cover up the gray hair and go natural.
On with my issue. About a year ago my husband surprised me and our four daughters with a two week cruise. We had a wonderful time. Of course I missed my husband, abd his big cock.
Well when we returned from our cruise, I noticed something different about my husband. When we got home, we were barely in the house and my husband was pulling my clothes off me, which I didn't mind a bit. This is when I noticed the first change, my husband had shaved his entire body. I mean everywhere, except for his head, my husband has always had this long beautiful long curly hair. Even for his age he hasn't lost any of his head hair. He had shaved his chest, armpitts, belly, back, legs, cock, balls, and ass. I'll admit it was a bit of a turn on making live to him like this.
However since then he has resorted to waxing, and then to laser hair removal. Until now his entire body, except for the beautiful long hair on his head, is totally hair free, and as smooth as a babies butt. Then our sex started to get a little weird. He went from wanting to stick my finger in his ass, during sex, to a small dildo, then a strapon, and now a monster strapon. I must admit it is fun, and really gets me heated up, and makes me wet.
But now almost a year later, I'm noticing things out of place in the drawers were I keep my bras and panties. I'm also finding bras and panties in the dirty clothes hamper, that I don't remember wearing. I hate to think about it, but putting everything together up to this point, I wondering if my husband is turning gay? Or could it be that he always has been gay, and this is just his way of coming out to me about it?
I'm really confused about the whole thing. Yes the ass play with him is kinky, and I like it. But the thought of watching him having sex with another man, is a bit of a turn on. I just don't know how I'd feel afterwards. Oh what to do? Just I just come straight out and ask him? What if he says yes, what do I do then? I'm not going to divorce over it, I'mlove him too much. Beside I experimented, and dabbled on the lesbian side when I was younger and in collage. Maybe I'll just sit back and ride this out to see what becomes if things. You never know I could end up getting the threesome I've always kind of secretly wanted.
I gotta know, did you show off your tits with bikinis on your cruise or did you keep them covered up?
UPDATE:
Couldn't take it anymore and finally had it our with my Husband.
Well a couple of you folks were right. He likes the feel of the hairless body. As for pegging him with big dildos, apparently that is something he's always liked that I never knew about. I can deal with these things. However what he through out to me after our discussion cought me really off guard. My husband wants to watch another man fuck me, and cum inside me. Then have me sit on his face, so he can eat the cum back out of me.
Is there anyone out there, guy or gal, that has done this? I'm having mixed feelings on it. It sounds hot when I think about it, but not sure if I would be comfortable having another man fucking me with my husband watching.
I have had this experience. And here what I have to say about this. There needs to be one thing agreed on between the 2 of you. And that's this, when you 3 are finished, your husband and you need to have sex immediately . Just you 2. 3rd party can watch while getting dressed or quietly in the shadows, but is not to make even a sound. That's to remind the 2 of you that you love and relationship is still first priority and that keeps it strong. Stare into each other's eyes, make the other comfortable and secure within each other and yourself. You'll be surprised in the intensity. And it helps you to know that what he's experiencing in his head, is sexual and not emotional where the 3rd party is concerned. I could sit and tell you the experiences I've had and the 2 of you would be so turned on. Being comfortable with the 3rd persons important as well. Knowing he's there for you 2 to have a experience of a life time with no intention of his personal emotions getting out of line helps. And as for the wife, if your husband is super turned on watching, you will have the time of your life watching him. Looking in his eyes as you cum while the other man's fuking you, shit. Your husband might just cum jacking off watching. And don't be surprised if he stays hard and doesn't stop jacking off. It's a rush for sure.. wish I could be there to guide you 2 through it. It would be an honor. I'm gonna go imagine this now. Lol.
Have you ever wanted to or fantasized of screwing another guy in private? Did you not eye up any guys on your cruise?;)
Oh hell yes! Do it!!
I really think he is just into some mild crossdressing (lingerie) most crossdressers are straight so I don't think you have anything to worry about.
Buy him a nice sexy pantie and bra set, bet he will wear them
Get your guard up, girl ! He's fucking some other women and trying to make you think he's going ladyman. How do you think he got his back and ass shaved ? You'd better dye that hair, top and bottom, lift those tits, and lipo that ass !
Either that, or check for him dancing at the local drag bar.
So simple minded. Has nothing to do with that. I'll bet any amount of money on that.
I wouldn't get to worked up over it just yet. Like you said, " see how it plays out". If you haven't seen any signs of your husband cheating on you with another guy, maybe that's not what he's into.
Could be he likes the hairless body, my husband is totally hairless, and I love it. Also maybe he only want you pegging (fucking) his ass, and not into other guys at all.
Maybe he wants you to fuck him while he's wearing your bras & panties. I know my husband and I play that alot. Where I'll dress him up real slutty and peg his ass with a massive strapon.
Watch guy or bi threesome porn, and talk about it. See what his reaction is. If you love him as much as you say, things will work out great for the both of you.
Just be open. If you’re that open already then it won’t be that big of a deal