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I keep having odd sexual desires
I keep having fantasies about women. I am obsessed with anal sex and keep looking for someone who would enjoy it and be into it as much as I am. Toys, fisting, the whole nine yards. I love big stretched out holes they, really turn me on. I have a girlfriend who lets me play a little bit, but her sex drive is super low, way to low than I like. I love her a great deal but I can't stop thinking about sex and what turns me on. I keep hoping to find a nice girl I can trust to have more of a sexual relationship with, and be with my girlfriend. I know its not right, but I feel horney all the time and Dunno how to relieve the situation in the long term. I have not cheated on her, other than think about it. I know it may sound a bit selfish, but sex is important to me. I can't do much to help my girlfriends desire or change the things I like. Any ideas?
Anal sex is a bit of a fantasy of mine too. I have it rarely with my girlfriend, maybe 4 times a year. Which are very pleasurable for me, but do not happen that often. She seems to like it when we do it but only when she is prepped.
But weirdly I have always had a fantasy of having anal sex with mature woman, 50 years old plus, very odd I know!!
A few years ago when I was single and on a stag doo in Amsterdam, I paid for a session with a mature prostitute who specialised in fetish and was 55 years old. We had anal sex multiple times in lots of positions, after the sex she let me fuck her arse with anal beads while I rimmed her arse for ages. Lovely stuff and a dream come true for me.
I don’t know why I love the ideal of anal with mature woman so much!!
Best not too cheat on her, best to find a partner who likes the same things as you sexually.
I was in a similar situation in my early 20’s. My then girlfriend was cute and a lovely person but she absolutely hated anything anal related, whereas I absolutely loved anal sex and all things related to the female anus.
After 4 years together she only let me have anal sex twice. I am that anal focussed that I can’t cum from normal sex alone so she used to begrudgingly let me finger her arse while we had sex or lick her ass.
This was not good for us and caused a lot of frustration, eventually we broke up, that was the best decision ever. Within 6 months I was with a girl who was much more sexually open and understand my needs. She was very into anal also and we had anal every day. We are still together now and both really satisfied and happy..
Your interests aren't really odd, at all. You didn't mention your age, but, if you and she are young, you have a situation that's only going to get worse, so, you need to get out, now. Unless your g/f is open to counseling with a sex therapist her lack of desire is only going to get worse. Find somebody who wants to fuck and suck and put the current g/f behind you.
I'm in my 40s and my g/f is in her 30s. She is on meds and I think that is what is causing her to lose desire. She needs to take them. We do have good sex now and then, and we do some anal stuff. Lately she has had sugary so sex has been out of the pictures for for the last few weeks. Its not easy to leave someone, especially when you do love them and get it in return. Maybe I'm just super horny or , or maybe have an over active imagination. Perhaps a bit of both. I'm not sure what is wrong with me.
I love anal sex also but my girlfriend won't let me go near her ass. I have no advice for you. I like to watch anal porn and jerk off