Turned on by her actions
We were married for 7 years when I told her I wasn’t happy. Right away she assumed I had already cheated on her. Out sex had pretty much came to a halt months before me telling her how I felt.
I pretty much assumed she was having sexual relationships with guys at her work. She continued to tell me how she went to lunch with Blake who was also married. I let it go without accusing her of having a relationship with him due to no real evidence. I decided to move in with my close buddy for 6 mos. I really felt she would finally admit to me she was also ready to move on with him or whoever.
I kept myself busy working out running eating right etc. She pretty thought it was over and didn’t hold back with her sexual endeavors. We decided to get back together and I truthfully never cheated on her, came close because I thought she was doing the same. When we got back together we discussed how we missed each other. She also admitted how sexually lonely she became. Yes... she went home with two guys one night where she admitted the fucked her all night. She slept with a black guy(she has a thing for black guys)
She had many one nighters and even had a discreet sexual relationship with her friends young son (19) She said just about every time she went out she had sex. I didn’t know how to even reply to her. She wanted to know about mine.
I told her nothing happened. I was shocked, pissed and so hurt.
I can never ever trust another female again. She didn’t believe me and thought everything she did was justified. Now I don’t even want to kiss her. To be honest I think every female would have done pretty much the same. There are few real women out there
Dude, I been married three time, never cheated on any of them. However they all cheated on me, and left me for that person. I gave up on women, and my life is much happier. No stress, if I was sex, I've got adult book store with glory hole booth, and hookers, on east side of town. Lots of bars and clubs, and theres always my right hand.
You too suffer from Assumitus. It develops from not speaking to each other about, pretty much, anything. You're both better off alone, so, suck it up !