Virgin loophole question
Hi, my name is Melissa. I graduated from highschool in the spring and will be going to college in the fall. I have never had sex with any of my boyfriends. My virginity is something that I want to save for the one. In June I was out with some friends and I ran into one of my old boyfriends. We were talking and before long we were separated from everyone else. We were in the park so we made our way down a trail where we started kissing. He pushed his hand down my panties and was rubbing me. I got so caught up in the moment that I let him bend me over a fallen tree, but just before he entered me I stopped him. He was so upset that I was scared he would never talk to me again. I felt so bad for leading him on that I remembered my friend saying something about loophole in the virginity rule. She said if you only have sex in the butt, that it doesn't count and technically you are still a virgin. I calmed my old boyfriend down and let him penetrate me in the butt. I have to be honest, it hurt and I felt no real pleasure from letting him do it, but he was happy and I shouldn't have played with him, so it was my own fault. Now I'm sitting her wondering if the loophole is real. Does anyone know about this loophole and would I technically still be a virgin?