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22-year-old virgin
I confess I am a 22-year-old virgin. If you saw me on the street, you would never guess in 1 million years that I was. I'm not fat, I'm not ugly. In fact, I've had numerous people tell me that I look like Tom Cruise.
The problem is, I was raised in a really strictly religious family that pretended like sex didn't exist. When I was a kid if two people kissed on TV My mom would get up and change the channel.
Because of this I never learned how to talk to girls and I am now scared to go out and talk to them or approach them. I have also developed some health problems and I am scared I might die a virgin. Every year I tell myself "this is the year I'm going to lose my virginity" but it never seems to happen. I desperately want to have sex.
There are friends of mine who are getting married and having kids at my age and I haven't even had sex, I feel like such a loser. I have thought about having sex with a escort but I don't think I could go through with it. It seems too cheap and dirty and the girl doesn't even care about you. Plus, I looked up some escorts online and there arent even any attractive ones in my city.
I am not religious at all, and I don't have a problem losing my virginity to a slutty girl. Every day I lose hope and feel like my life is passing before me before my own eyes. If you have any advice for me. Please tell me.
After three years, I'm still secretly hooking up with my sexy older neighbor.
I'm currently 28 and work in the sports physical therapy industry. I also work part-time at a local Cross Fit.
During the lockdown, everything closed. My husband was afraid I'd give him Covid so he moved back with his parents to telework for the month of April and May. I was board so I was going for morning and afternoon runs.
My neighbor works construction and was home. He turned 50 this year and is in amazing shape. Their kids are married and live in another state and his wife knew the lockdown was coming so she went to stay with her elderly parents because they are not able to drive.
He was in his garage installing some work-out equipment he'd had for years but never had time to put together or use. I helped him and told me to come over anytime and we'd work out together. The first few days, we'd go for a 8 mile run then 1 hour with some weights. We were both sweaty so we went inside to get a drink and cool off. His shirt was wet and sticking to his muscular body. I was attracted and aroused. He was checking me out. We kissed and things got heated. We got in this shower together and the rest is history.
From then on, I would pack small bag with a fresh change of cloths. I remember having to put my sweaty shorts and sports bra back on for the walk of shame back home the first time. lol
His wife travels for work and my husband has very little interest in sex so we agreed to continue having casual sex when we can.
Bro. May I suggest that you begin with the correct framework. Some good mentoring. Look up Tom Leykis, 'Leykis101'. Trust me, he's good. Andrew Tate, also. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. No-one. Get the correct framework (mindset) in place FIRST....then listen to Tate's stuff on getting some 'game'. Only then will you be prepared, with some structure in place to protect yourself.
After all that (but *not* before, I add), go to YouTube and immerse yourself in a guy called 'Alpha M'. Do it.
A Jedi you will be young fella. Take it from a much older dude that wished he'd been schooled on this decades ago. Would have saved a TON of heartbreak and errors.
You're welcome :)
Lost my V at 22. Married at 24. Still happily married 32 years later.
Don't give up.
Work on yourself. Go back to church and date the single ladies there.
….but why
You contradicted yourself there buddy. You don’t losing V plates to a slut but not an escort. Both are dirty and both won’t care about you after. If you really wanna get it out your system desperately an escorts is the way to go. If you leave it, it’ll only get harder
I was a virgin until about a month before my 22nd birthday. I finally asked a woman that was in some of my college classes out when she told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend. We had sex after we went to the movies on our first date. She was my first and I was her seventh sexual partner. We dated for two years and then got married.
Find a mature whore - she will open a new world of sex for you to enjoy and you will get a new life from the on!
Wanna lose your virginity in my Bussy or mouth? Both?
I lost mine virginity freshman year to a girl J*nn*tt*. She was a junior with a goal of getting to 100 before graduation. She also had a reputation for being the 'virgin slayer'. If she found out a guy was a virgin, she wouldn't stop pursuing until she got it. She was not very attractive but had a solid body and knew how to suck c*ck. She told me I was #72. Oh yeah, I made sure to wear a condom.
You should let me a 45 year old housewife have your virginity baby !!!!
You are a good woman. Your husband is a very lucky man. I wish I'd lost mine to a mature women. The girl I lost mine to was not good.
He’s last about 30 seconds with a she-devil like you. But I bet you’d bring him back up quickly.
Yes I would my husband loves for me to fuck young guys and I want a virgin bad I want theat sweet cum
I was like you, never was able to find a girl to make love. Then, accepted my fate. So be it, I had sex will more than 27 women/girls.
Thinking it will fetch some satisfaction but never happened. You see the problem is expectations which is least the other person is going to provide you with. Don't think much! You are earning I assume, have sex will a slut unless you find some one.
Go on Tinder dude
Put it out there that you will eat ass. Any smart girls will be lining up to fuck you
Do not worry too much, I was just like you, started counting from 23 and broke my virginity at 27, after that, I discovered sex is over-rated, or I had higher expectations. So do not start thinking that you will die a virgin, you will definitely get someone along the way. There are many virgin men than they would like to admit
There's more to life than just sex... ;P
I'm a college grad with a similar situation. Never had "the talk" with my dad, i'm a guy btw. just focus on socializing more and making friends. It's not all about sex!