My daughter's friend is hitting on me

I am a 42 yr old male. I'm a single parent of three children, 1 girl and 2 boys. My daughter is my oldest child she is 19 yrs old, and the two boys are 7 and 10. I lost my wife 5 yrs ago, to cancer.
Anyway my daughter's life time friend has started flirting with me and hitting on me. Making really sexual comments and jesters when no one else can hear or see her. She has even flashed me a couple of times. I'm not sure how to react to all this, I haven't dated or been with a women since my wife passed. I mean what would people think of me dating a 19 year old girl, what would my daughter and sons think?
Not sure what to do, need advice.

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  • Who says you have to date her, just have sex with her like any normal male would do

  • Well my daughter and her friend are home from college for the summer. Both have gotten part time jobs, to make some cash for the up coming year of college. There only other plans are laying around our pool. So I'm just going to sit back and see how this summer plays out.

  • How many times have you wanked watching them, sun blazing and glistening skin showing?

  • Pretty bad place to come for any real advice with such collection of bottom feeding perverted internet trolls with the brains of gerbils never leave here.

  • Do it. What’s nicer than an older caring man who will be gentle and nice to her?

  • No one can tell you what to do here, because no one out here knows this girl like you and your daughter do.

    Try not to think with your dick (most men do) and remember this girl for who she was before your wife died. Was she someone you trusted? Was she polite and respectful? Did she talk bad about other people? Was she mature? Did she always ask others for money? Did she have a lot of nice expensive things, clothes? Did she go to school and get good grades? Does she plan on going to college? What are her dreams and goals in life?

    Don't worry about who it would piss off if you dated her, you just need to decide if she really wants to be with you for who you are or if she's just looking for someone to take care of her and use for money. If you decide she really is into older men and likes you for who you are, then date her. Your kids will be pissed but they will get over it.

    I know from experience. I dated and married my friends mother. My friend was pissed when she found out we were dating. Eventually we got married and my friends sister (my wife's middle daughter) had a friend who thought I was hot. Of course I was only 10 years older than the sisters friend, and she flirted with me all the time. She made it very clear that she thought I should divorce my wife and be with her. I never did anything with this girl, instead telling her she would someday find a husband.

    That was 20 years ago. Today I'm still married to my wife and the sisters friend is on husband number 3, and not happy with him neither. She still let's me know to thos day that waiting for me to be with her. I suppose if I ever become single I may take her up on the offer, but for now I'm still happy with my friends mother.

  • Don't do it, it will all just end in tears

  • Don't do it. It would be setting a bad example for your kids. Find someone in the 30+ range to date. Chances are that she only wants you for your money and your dick and will leave you for someone younger once the novelty wears off.

  • Be careful this could all blow up in your face. Causing problems between you and your daughter. Just be great full that a sweet young girl is attracted to you. Flirt back if you're comfortable doing that. But I would stay out of her panties if I were you.

  • Dating??? She doesn't want to date you, she wants you to fuck her on the down low.

  • You should definitely fuck.

  • She's of age right? Flirt back. She must be into older, daddy type men. Give her what she wants. You only live once, so you might as well enjoy the things that come your way

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