Need help with wife and our sexual relations.

My wife and I love each other a lot. But I have a pretty small penis. It's not quite 4 inches. Maybe 3.75 inches and about 4 inches in circumference. Anyway I thought things were ok sexually. Then she confessed to me that she fakes orgasms and I have never given her one. Then I found out she had an affair with an old lover about a year ago and it lasted about 6 months. I suspect it was longer than that. I was pretty devastated at first but I kind of have been turned on and aroused by the thought of my sexy sweet wife fucking another man.

I asked her many questions about all the details of their affair. The nitty gritty. She said she wouldn't lie. She really enjoyed the sex. The first time they did it he pulled out cause they hadn't talked about it. She said after that he ejaculated inside of her and she is on the pill. So she would make love to me in the morning then get a bath and by 1 pm that day she was having relations with him. I asked if she performed oral sex on him and she said no. They just fuck. I got her to admit it's more than just sex. She still has feelings for him. I asked if he gives her an orgasm and she said yes.

I asked her if she wants to divorce me and marry him. She said no as he is also married and they don't want to marry. She told me that they are no longer meeting and broke it off. But I wonder if she is just saying that. I asked her if she wanted a threesome to which she said no. She only wants one man at a time. At least she didn't stop having sex with me like many women do when they take a lover. But I can't help but think about them together making love. My wife the love of my life with another man. I feel like less of a man now. I couldn't satisfy her the way she needs. I try everything including going down on her but she says she doesn't really like that anyway. She just wants straight sex no oral or anal.

I asked if she thought about me when she was with him. She said no not at all. I guess why would she. I'm better looking than him. He's taller and well has the larger penis. I'm so confused now. Part of me is turned on and the other part of me is very hurt and mistrustful of her now. When I'm at work I wonder what she is doing and who she is with. She is currently a fulltime student going to school. I told her that I have been thinking of her with other men and that I get aroused by it. She said she just wants me. Not sure about anything now.


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  • Now that you have lost trust in your wife you may never get it back. She on the other hand has been made independent by fucking another, she will never feel the same about you. She now feels she can fuck any man she wants and probably keep it a secret from you. You have one of two ways to go, stay and never know where she is or who she is with, or you can walk away. Sorry for your problem, I hope it works out for you.

  • I love her so much. I am trying to find a way for us to continue. I told her that I love her no matter what. I told her I want her to be happy and fulfilled as a woman. So if she needs someone to give her sexually what I can't then I understand. We hugged and kissed and then we made love twice. Monday I wonder how I will feel as she heads off to school. So many opportunities for my sexy hot wife to gets those needs met. I don't understand my own feelings. When I'm making love to her I think about her with her lover and I get super aroused. In fact I'm always thinking about her fucking him. I can't seem to get it out of my mind. I told her I would be willing to try a threesome. But she says that she will never do that. She likes her men one at a time. I have begged her to include me in her sexual life with her other lover. I guess I will have to be ok with just sloppy seconds. I get so turned on and my little cock gets so hard thinking that her pussy had another man's penis deep inside and filled full of his seed just hours before. Am I crazy? Or just a loving cuckold husband who knows his place? At least she is still willing to have sex with me.

  • I will gladly come service your wife. I'm not huge but my cock is ok. I'm almost 7 inches and pretty thick. I would fuck her while you watch and you can get some cream pie for dessert. I love being in a threesome especially two men and a woman.

  • You need to suggest to her that you understand her sexual needs but you (the husband) needs to be in control of them. Once a month you need to go out a couple hours away from home and get a hotel room. Bring her back to the room, blindfold her and have a preselected hung stud ready and waiting for your phone call. Or pick someone from the bar to follow you back to your room.

  • Ditch the bitch and find someone else. No telling what kind of diseases she will catch having unprotected sex with other men, and than spreading it to you. She obviously is using you to support her while she uses other men to get her jollies. If you have any self respect left, you will know what to do, and yes, there are plenty of women out there who can orgasm with what you have to offer.

  • If you are aroused by it, then you don't have a problem. Just sit back and enjoy thinking about all the crazy shit that guys do to your wife.

  • Don't be confused. Your woman is a hopeless fucking slut. She is probably fucking around on you right now. Just go whack off to the thought of her pussy getting nailed right now. Enjoy!

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