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Handjob (cheating?)
My husband's friend was over the other day to install a new garbage disposal on our sink. I've known him for years, and he's real sweet and cute. I consider him and his wife good friends. He and I were alone together, and after he finished I made him lunch, and we had a few drinks.
Although we're both married, have kids, and love our spouses, he mentioned that he had a major crush on me. I'm 39, and was a bit flattered that anyone could still think I'm attractive. I could smell the testosterone coming off of him, and that he wanted to have sex. In all honesty, I think he's attractive too, and if I were to cheat, he'd be a contender.
I told him that his compliment was really nice, but we couldn't. That said, the mood of the moment was such that we did kiss--a lot--and I agreed to give him a handjob, because I wanted to see his cock. I hadn't seen another dick other than my husband's in 18 years.
We sat on the floor facing each other, naked from waist down, and I gave him a handjob while he fingered my pussy. He asked if he could put his dick in me or suck him, but I again said no. We got each other off with no fucking or sucking.
I told a female friend about that afternoon and she went apeshit, saying that it was cheating. I said handjobs are not cheating. She was adamant that I cheated, and chastised me for acting slutty. Now I'm confused. I don't think I had sex with him at all, so it can't be cheating, but am I wrong? It seems like it's a matter of definition, and I don't think a handjob is sex, so there was no cheating.
Definitely cheating, not even close to anything else
If you don't think it is cheating then tell your husband about it and see what he think or the friend's wife see what she thinks.
What you did was sexual, but I'm not sure if that counts as cheating. It's close. If you blew him or fucked him, then yes, that would be cheating. The bigger issue is that you went into that territory with your husband's friend. You've obviously thought about him before and were waiting for an opportunity. Stop being nasty.
Depends on the rules spoken or unspoken between a couple. Unspoken meaning you know something that would not be agreed with but hasn't been verbalized.
Technically, it’s cheating.
Don’t feel guilty about cheating on your husband by doing more with your friend. It can be a one time thing, just to get it out of your system. Just don’t tell your friend.
Hand jobs and oral sex are not cheating.
Oral sex is just a hand shake between friends!!!!, Same goes or hand jods and finger fucking.
Definitely cheating but not as bad as fucking. Does your hubby get hand jobs on the regular? If no then you suck.
Who cares what others say; you should have a friend do the same for your husband.
1st you are the wife -YOU make the rules!! 2nd (although since we married as far as I know is just theoretical) my wife Claims that giving a blow Job isn't sex
Would you be comfortable telling your husband and your friend's wife that you "kissed a lot" and then gave him a hand job while he fingered your pussy? Do you think they would get upset or be fine with it. If you won't tell them because it would upset them then yes its cheating!
If you got each other off, that's cheating. So fucking dumb.
My wife did something straight out of a porno a few weeks ago. Had a plumber come over to install a new kitchen sink. While he was under the sink she stood over him and said, "Sorry. I just need to grab a glass real quick." When she said that, he looked up and she had on a silk nightgown type thing. Didn't quite cover her ass. No panties on. She didn't fuck him or anything but she saw him look and said, "Like that? Want a better look?" And spread her legs a bit more. She shaves her pussy lips but keeps above it hairy
So hot