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Is My Husband Being Unreasonable About Anal?
My husband and I dated for 2 years and have been married for a year. In the past he's asked if I'd try anal sex and I've always said no. Lately he's been asking more and I've said no again and that I am afraid it will hurt. He's kept pushing and insisting that it won't hurt. I finally told him that I tried it a few times with the guy I dated before I dated him and it was a disaster - it really hurt! He got really pissed at this, I think mostly because he knows who that guy is, we work with him. He knew I dated this guy for over a year and we had sex, but he seems really pissed that I tried anal with this guy and won't try it with him. I think me and this guy tried it about 3 times and it hurt each time. He'd try to go in slow and we used lube, but it still hurt. Once or twice he stuck it all the way in and YIKES! Basically I'd just be begging the guy to "finish" quick so the pain would stop. And, YUCK, after he did finish I would have a mess coming out of my butt the rest of the night! Should I give in and let my husband have anal sex with me once so he's not so jealous any more? Thanks for the advice! -Marcy.
I am guessing your husband will get over it after a while. I imagine it's hard for him to go to work every day, look at this guy, know he took your butt cherry, and left his load in your ass. I am sure it's double hard on him to know this guy got to enjoy your ass and he is not allowed to have it.
I would rather get fucked in my ass then my pussy. For one reason it feels better because my ass is a lot tighter then my pussy. My pussy is a little stretched out from too many large items over the years.
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Ask him if there’s something else he’d like to try other than anal? Tell him that you want him to be fulfilled but not at great pain to you, so you are willing to try a number of things to do so.
No I don't think expressing your wants and desires to your spouse is unreasonable. Anal comes quite natural for some and others have to learn to embrace it.
If you want to try it always use plenty of lube and get him to do it slowly and gently.
Keep trying eventually you will really get to like it
Tell him your ass is a one way street. I tried anal once, and it wasn't good. I also didn't like my boyfriend's dick smelling like ass.
Tell your husband he is better endowed than the one who hurt you. So there is no way it can ever work. Maybe that’ll defuse it.
Get a strap on and make him take it first.
If you don't some other slut will
Bye
Do not do anything your not comfortable with that makes you hurt just to please your husband, he will get over it. I have not had a problem with it myself and my husband is average sized but he enjoys fingering my anus more than using his penis. He has done it in the past and says he enjoys my vajay jay more that my anus. I also had a boyfriend though that loved anal and thank god he had a thin penis so it was fairly enjoyable actually.
So maybe let him finger it if that is enough for him and comfortable to you.