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Marriage Mistake
I got married to a great guy 3 years ago. He's lovely in most respects. He makes a lot of money, treats me like a princess, we have a nice house, I like everything about him. Except. . .
Our sex life is good, we're in our 20s and have it often, but I miss the things that I used to be able to do when I was single. Like meeting up with guy friends and going to bars, drinking until late, and getting spit roasted. Or just asking my trainer at the gym if he wanted to fuck and having him over at my apartment for a tryst. Or meeting up with people from work on the weekends to listen to music, party, and have casual sex, even if they were 20 years older.
I'm 24 and I think that I married too early. I wish I could ditch my husband and remarry him 10 years from now. He's perfect, I don't want to lose him, but I was having a good time being single, getting fucked by hot guys, and I'm so sad that isn't my life right now. I have regret about marriage, though I'll never back out. I get that I'm selfish and needy. But I KNOW my needs. It's tough to manage the cravings. Anyone else regret marrying early?
Have a talk with him. He may be totally into you having fun, or at a minimum having you invite someone back for some threesome fun.
You did marry too young. I speak from experience having married my wife when she was 21. I was 30. Our situation is very similar to yours; I’m quite successful, big house, everything she could have needed. At first everything was great but then I started finding out more about her past. And then after about 2 years she I could tell she was getting restless. Then about 6 months later she admitted to me she had been seeing someone. A guy she met at Starbucks. It hurt more that she was so up front and honest about everything. Her and her “boyfriend’s” relationship. That’s what she called him, her boyfriend. After a couple of days I learned more than I wanted to know. She basically reverted to her “slutty” ways before we got married. We separated but 4 months later she came crawling back. Her boyfriend dumped her and she said she learned from her mistake and wanted me back. It’s been a long road back and I’m still not certain I really want her back. Getting some of the images of my wife and her boyfriend out of my head has been very difficult.
Dude that sucks. Why the hell marry a 21 year old girl. You didn’t know she was a slut? She must have been gorgeous and a pussy like sweet tea. So how are things now?
I totally understand. My wife and I have been married for 18 months now. I'm 19 and she is 28. She works second shift at a near by 24 hr. Truck stop. I'm pretty sure that she fucking other guys, because I can smell sex on her when she comes home late from work. I don't know what to do about it, I'm afraid if I say anything, she might get made and leave me.
Damn why Marry so young to an 'old' woman. You should be enjoying life at ur age. She should be settling down for a family.
Get out and run man!!!
If you really love your husband and not just all the materialistic things he can offer you, ie . nice house, nice car ect. you will divorce him . You won't but you should , he deserves better than to have some selfish woman use him and cheat on him, which its clear you will do.
I am a male that got married at 18.. I really understand.. you will most likely cheat..