Pointers For Intimacy With Your Older Sister
So, you want to get intimate with you older sister? Really simple. First thing.
1. Respect Boundaries
Don't be a jerk. If you have a feeling she doesn't want you to touch her b*****, but the behind is okay to spoon, choose the spooning. Do whatever boundaries she sets. let her lead the way, as the woman.
2. Do not think you can break the rules
It really can be only one time you are allowed break her boundaries before she closes up shop permanently. Make sure it is very clear before going into uncharted sexual territory with her that she is good with you moving up a level. over time, she will open up to more and more. Taking things too fast and you could lose it all - permanently.
3. Start right
To start a relationship, make it playful. Keep everything playful. Things must always be indirect and playful - create a game out of it. This can be wrestling, pillow fights, or even making humor out of something serious. By making it play - it mitigates guilt and embarrassment of sexual feelings for a family member. You sister will likely have guilt and embarrassment concerning it and play is great at breaking up these stumbling blocks of society.
It isn't about the end reward in this type of relationship. It really is about enjoying the ride there. Be cool and calm... stay in control and of course, within boundaries. These boundaries are likely unspoken, but have a clear definition that is set by your sister. Let her send clear signals so that you know when she is ready for more and be careful to only act after a very clear signal is sent for the opportunity to act.
Above all RESPECT her, and she will likely give you EVERYTHING. Let your sister feel she is in charge and is she likely to open up completely to your love.