I've been dating this wonderful guy for about 2 months. I really love him, but he has a problem that I have a lot of male friends. I'm female, but have always gotten along better with guys in pretty much any aspect. In contrast, he is an introvert with virtually no friends.
I've been besties with some of my guy friends for years, going back to middle school. Most are in their own committed relationships now, but when they weren't and I wasn't, we'd have sex on occasion. It was no big deal, just friends having orgasms, nothing major. It's not like I was a major slut or anything either, since I only fucked three of my close friends. All three are people whom I hold dear to my heart and chat with almost daily. I also keep in touch with other guy friends with whom I wasn't ever sexual.
I've been totally honest about my past, but my boyfriend wants me to cut communications with certain guy friends, and that isn't right, imo. He sees my friends as a threat to us, when nothing could be further from the truth. They have their girls, I have my guy, and we all wish each other the best. Just because we fucked in the ancient past doesn't mean that we're ever going to do it again, because we won't. First and foremost, they are friends. I love my boyfriend, but I wish he could get a grip. He just can't stop obsessing about my friends and our sexual past. It is too bad, because my boyfriend is perfect in every other way.