I must be unique
I started pleasuring men early in my life, my brother was the first one to introduce me to giving pleasure. I had no idea what I was doing other than him telling me what to do and giving me reassurance that I was great at it. I learned early on that the faster and harder you do it the quicker it is over, especially with young men. Rather than be angry about it I channeled all that experience into my soulmate when I married him, we had sex of course before we were married but as soon as we were committed to each other I stepped it up quite a bit and he loved it all. My attitude is men need to be pleasured as much as possible and by as much as I mean anytime day or night, lets face it a man will let you pleasure him anytime. My husband was injured in a car accident one time, god forbid it happen again but he was laid up pretty bad in the hospital. I asked him after only a few days if there was anything he needed to help him out and his response was to whisper "I need a blow job" in my ear. He had one leg up in a cast with pins coming out of his foot and both arms dangling from supports and that is what he wants.
Yes I gave him one.
I have always wanted just a few orgasms a month because it takes foreplay for about forty five minutes for me to get ready for one, I am not quick when it comes to having one. He loves this but honestly just give me some light touches or suck on my toes for a bit and I am good for a week, him on the other hand would love a blow job an hour or more sometimes.
I brought with me some memories of what my brother did with me and he thinks I am the kinkiest woman alive. I tell him to stand in a dark closet and I will be there shortly to pleasure him, I have met him in the garage as he is pulling in kneeling in front of his work bench on a rubber pad naked, arms tied behind my back to the bench. I have also come up with some on my own like laundry day now that we have kids, I tell him to go downstairs and stand between the shelving on the other side of the basement. I tell the kids that I am loading up the washer and will be back in five minutes, I load the washer then go to the shelving and suck him hard and fast, he has an orgasm before the wash cycle starts. Before we had kids I always told him if you want a blow job just tell me or if you want to every now and then just grab my hair and stick it in my mouth. My brother invented that one and he always came really quickly from the power trip.
My husband also loves to watch football and hockey and never misses a game, back when it was just the two of us I told him that he could have one anytime his team scored. These days I sometimes have grandma watch the kids on a Sunday and tell him the same thing, he absolutely loves it and I have even upped my game a little bit telling him that if his team is ahead at half time he gets a slow sucking thru the whole thing.
So that is my outlook on keeping a man happy, orgasms and variety, think up something really dirty and I bet your man will love it if you do it to him.