Is this the new normal?
I'm 34, mother of two, and just started dating again after being divorced for a year. The guy I'm dating is younger, he's 23. He's great, I love him, but it's been weird meeting his friends.
The weather is finally good, so yesterday my bf took me to a BBQ at his friend's house. There were about a couple dozen people there, mostly married couples. I met everyone, felt welcome, and had a nice time chatting with the women especially. I helped prepare the food, had a few drinks, and enjoyed socializing.
At one point I went out to the back patio to bring some salad to everyone and was totally shocked by the visual. Two of the women, Nora and Wesleigh, were kneeling in front of their guys and casually sucking their dicks as they sat in their lawn chairs. They had their bras unhooked and their tits out of their tops. I asked what the hell that was about, and Nora just smiled and said that they were getting an appetizer.
I rounded up my bf and told him that the scene was really, really weird, but he said it was no big deal. No one else seemed to think it was a big deal either, as everyone just continued drinking and chatting, pretty much ignoring the fact that a couple of guys were getting their dicks sucked on the patio. I asked my bf if they were swingers or something, but he said no, they were just being nice to their guys like good girls.
Call me crazy, but seeing people do sexual things so casually out in the open was odd. I don't know if it is the younger generation or what, but sucking cock is something that should be a little more private. They didn't even seem to think it was inappropriate. That's not normal.