Open marriage

I was in the military when I met my wife. She claimed to have a boyfriend but she was so easy to get into my bed I didn't believe her. I was getting ready to go back when I realized she was serious. I didn't give her or that much of a thought as I had to go. When I got back, I eventually ran into her. She was living with a different boyfriend. That didn't stop us from mating like rabbits. This time we stayed in contact when I went back to work.

She broke up with her BF and tried to stay single and faithful to me but that didn't last two weeks. That didn't bother me in the slightest as I still didn't see her as relationship material, but a bunny to bed when I was around. I gave her only naughty, slutty and bad advice. She'd complain but obey almost everything. I took unfair, selfish advantage.

I'm too embarrassed to admit just how far I pushed her and took advantage of her. When I came to my senses and realized she wasn't a slut but devoted and submissive I felt bad and soon married her. We've been married just over thirty years now

Would love to know what you had her do. More importantly, would love to know if she's continued to be unfaithful! She sounds way too hot to keep at home and with just one man.

What she doesn't know is a guy down the road has already hit on me. I told him I was married and he told me he likes married men. Next time I see him if he hits on me, I'll just have to take him up on it

Having her suggest an open marriage and talking about it with you hoping you might want to go along with it is fine. Having her ask about having an open marriage then her telling you she is already fucking another guy isn't ok. She is just a cheating whore who wants your blessing so she can fuck around guilt free.

I think whether you accept this or not depends on a lot of variables, including how long you've been married. If you have been married 20 years or something, your relationship might be stable enough to handle an open context with sex. The problem is that fucking someone is an emotional thing, and it takes a rare type to be able to disassociate the orgasms with other feelings of attachment including love. Maybe your wife can separate sex from committed love, but maybe she can't. If it's the latter, you might as well get divorced now, cause it isn't going to work.

Not necessarily. Polyamory is a thing. My wife has two other partners, a guy and a woman. She's absolutely in love with both of them. That doesn't detract from our marriage one bit. Hell, I love watching her with both of them, but the point is that her feelings for them are in addition to her feelings for me, not a replacement. It doesn't work for everyone, but it works for us.
It's like how having more than one kid doesn't mean you love the first one any less. Not a perfect analogy, but you get the idea.

Wish my wife proposed this to me. After 10 years, having sex with her is like doing algebra. I can tell she's bored too, and doesn't even go to the gym anymore, even though I've been going more than ever. She outweighs me too (I'm 5'10 about 160). I think most women think they'll lose their husbands if they agree to an open marriage, I just honestly wouldn't mind fucking someone different, I wouldn't mind it if she did either. We get along fine, security is great, but I honestly think I can't take 5 more years of this.

You posted this 5 years ago. How did things go? Did you ever take the initiative and ask for an open relationship?

I personally think this is hot. If my wife came to me with this same confession, I'd be all for it. I beat off all the time over thoughts of other men fucking my wife behind my back. You're a lucky guy!

Yeah, I'd love to watch another guy pound my wife. I'd beat off to it and maybe even play with the guys Dick if he let me.

What I want to see is my wife riding her friends cock on the couch. Me walk in the door to her facing him bouncing up and down on his dick

Yeah, I’d also love to walk in on my wife fucking another guy and for them to carry on.

It would be awesome if the guy went balls deep as she urged him to cum in her. After she is filled with his cum, for him to pull out and thick white down to run out of her pussy. She’d then open her legs to me and invite me to reclaim her and mix my cum with his deep inside her.

The reality is even hotter than you imagine. Seriously.

When I was in high school at my friends house he was changing I couldn’t help commenting how huge his cock was. Over 9” and twice my girth as we compared cocks jacking off I imagined how my 5 1/2” would compare inside a girl to his. We talked and joked about trying it out on different girls I dated over the years. Before long never having a chance to actual follow thru I was graduated and married. I started imagining it all over again it was very overwhelming addicted to the thought and talked to my wife. I went into detail about my past desires and wanted her to experience him. It didn’t take to much to convince her she only wanted assurance it wouldn’t effect our marriage. My friend fucked her hard she loved every second of it and admitted his much bigger cock felt better during sex. She wasn’t shy about admitting she wanted this to be a regular thing and I had enjoyed our three way and watching. During one of our three ways my wife and I was 69ing me on bottom he was pounding her pussy stretching it out his balls in my face. Luckily he didn’t mind as I started feeling licking and sucking his balls and he shoved his cum covered cock in my mouth. I thought the threesome was intense but this just jacked the intensity to a new level. Making this apart of our threesomes we easculated naturally as I learned how his cock felt pain and pleasure. Crazy how sex can be when you don’t close any doors

My wife fucked an ex while we were engaged, told me about it years later when she learned about my fantasies. I jack off about it regularly.