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I just want to have him for mine
My friend's husband refers to me as his girl friend. We've been having an affair for three years. We're quite daring at times. I kept telling myself that I just wanted to fuck him, and that was all. But, she treats him so poorly, and I really want him for my own. I want to treat him like a King in all possible ways. He's not truly happy, but he stays. There's of course a lot of history there, and children (teens). I am single and have two kids of my own. It would be a mess if he left her for me - a disaster actually. It's impossible, but I can't help but want it. I don't tell him this, of course. What's the point? I just satisfy his every sexual need and be a friend he can count on and trust. If a man is fucking his wife's friend on a very regular bases, sometimes even in the same apartment as the (sleeping) wife...isn't it kind of over anyway? Don't worry. I am not one of those bitches that would rat him out or try to cause him trouble. I believe if it is meant to be it will be, and maybe it's just not meant to be.
He won't do anything to change this situation, especially since you do your best to meet his every need. You won't be rewarded for that in the end. He'll just keep taking from you what he can for as long as he can. I'm not saying that you should give him an ultimatum or anything like that. You might end up not liking the results in any case.
For your own good, you should try to find someone else. Don't be shy about it or hide it. After that the next move is up to him. As I said, as long as you're making it easy for him, he'll keep seeing you and going back home to his wife.
I am ok with that. I don't feel I am being used. I went into this knowing the deal, and I was never given any false promises - and I haven't been given any since this all started. I would never give him an ultimatum - either we keep going as it is, or I move on, or worst case scenario we get caught which I sincerely hope doesn't happen and we make every effort to avoid the possibility. It just sucks because I think we could be very good together.
He is a good actor. You do realize that he would cheat on you with someone else if you were together?
But, if you are making every effort to not get caught, why did you fuck with her sleeping in the next room?
Not judging as I would love to have someone like you myself!
When we do that we're typically drunk haha... but once she goes to bed she's normally asleep for the night. It's risky but drunk calculated lol