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Been married to my husband 3 years. Ive always had a very high sexdrive. My husband would be happy with once a week. I often feel like he reluctantly gives in to my hinting about needing sex and wanting him. And i can tell that he's thinking of ways out. Sometimes he'll be real snidey with me of ways to cause an argument so he doesn't have to do anything. Yet once a week when he wants sex its a totally different story. I never in the 5 years in total we been together, never turned him away. I've done it even when Im sick. When we do have sex it's very intense and lasts way over 3 hours with lots of kinky things and foreplay. But i would like it 2-3 times a week. Now here's my predicament - i know someone who would fuck me, who yearns for me and desires me. I feel like i may cheat. Although the thought upsets me greatly, i love my husband very much. Im just so highly sexed. I'm fed up of my husband not taking care of my needs, i now see why alot of ladies cheat.
I have always needed to cheat up until my current boyfriend. It's something we share. He is into my slutiness and I am into the fact that he is into it. It creates this crazy dynamic. If he wants to watch me fuck and I like to fuck, we'll then.
I am the husband and I have the opposite problem. I soooo want my wife to cheat. I try to get her to flirt and to get guys to flirt with her but she just won't go the distance. I am open with her about it. She is like, "you want me to be a whore?" and I am like, "Yes, exactly!" She comes up with scenarios like, "So if you came home from work and I was fucking some guy on the couch, what would you do?" And I am like, "I would go in the kitchen and make dinner and let you finish" lol. She thinks there is something the matter with me and that I am trying to get rid of her or trying just trying to make it so I can fuck other girls. I am seeing that some people get this and some can't fathom it. It's not abnormal. I just wish I had a wife who got it at some level.
My ex-wife was never big on sex, and mostly just tolerated it. After awhile, I restarted wild, taboo sex with my hot older sister, as we'd done for years but, for awhile, were "trying to be good". One weekend, helping her clean and work on a friend's boat house (basically closing up for the season), the combination of very infrequent sex, my desire for a good, hot experience, and watching her clean, stretch, contort, even strike a hands on hips pose while smoking, draping her long nails across her sexy tummy, wearing ratty, cutoff jeans shorts and a sexy, green and white crop top, was too much for me to take.
"Hey" I softly said to her, approaching her from behind and wrapping my arms around her, pulling her in. She knew what I was after, as was she. "Think it's time for a break.." I added, unsnapping her shorts and dropping them down her legs. No words or hesitation, no "we shouldn't" from the sexy sister. She could tell I was a man on a mission, and the mission was HER.
After that, yeah, we resumed our regular sexual activities, pretty much twice weekly or so depending on schedule and other stuff. Once I re-upped being sexually satisfied with my hot older sister, I'm telling you..I was then the one with no interest in sex with my uninterested, boring wife. I didn't need her for that anymore, since I had something way, way better.
Stop your moaning and go have your affair, your sexual needs will be met then.
Sounds like you need to have a heart to heart with hubby. If he won't sex you then what's his reason for being married? He needs to get it on with you or the two of you should move on. Would live to hear his side by the way. What more can you tell us?