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My friend's wife
This happened a couple months ago and I still feel terribly about this.
My buddy and I have been friends for over 25 years. We grew up together, went school together, are golf partners at the club we belong to and I forgot all of that one night and screwed his wife.
Since this is such a small world, I happened to be in Charleston, S.C. at the same time his wife was. I was there looking for a condo to purchase and Tori was there for a work conference. As it happened, I was walking down River Street and saw her sitting by herself at one of the outside bistros. I stopped, caught up, and found out she would be on my flight the next day. I told her if she was interested, I would be out later after my last realtor's visit. She said she'd text me but that she was tired from the conference.
I didn't think much of it, went to a restaurant and ordered food. As I started to eat, she texted and said, "Bored. where are you? Lets get a drink." I told her where I was and she showed up 20 minutes later. We caught up again, even sent selfies to my buddy, and had fun together. Needless to say, we had a little too much fun and she wound up coming back to my hotel room with me. We had amazing sex that evening.
The next day was a little awkward for both of us but we got around and did what we had to do. We made small talk in the airport but we were both clearly feeling pretty bad about the situation. To make matters worse, when we got home, he was outside the airport waiting for her and I wound up seeing him too. Gave him a hug, talked a bit, and felt like a scumbag the whole time. He asked if I wanted to have dinner with them and I had to say no. I just couldn't bear it. I told him I had to get back to the realtors the next day and had more homework to do. He understood.
While I was at work the next day, Tori texted me and said, "We're adults. we made a mistake. I love him and I know you do too. Let's agree to keep this a secret." I replied, "Of course. We can't let him know."
I've sat with this on my mind since October and I can't get over it. I have confessed to my priest (didn't go well) and now here. I just feel like such an asshole.
Hopefully you have moved on from this. It's something that should not have happened, and you could have stopped it, but you didn't secretly meet her there just to have this happen. It was the circumstances. Just try move past it, and try not to do something like this in the future. Based on the kinds of things that people do, this one was fairly minor.
Dude, it was just a one off sex. It's just sex!! Not like you killed his first born. Yes, it was wrong, but what he doesn't know can't hurt him. Just don't do it again. Don't destroy their marriage. Forget about it and move on. He's ok. She's ok. You're going to be ok.
If it had to b someone I'm sure he would feel better knowing it was you. You should be open about it and see how he feels about having a threesome you might be surprised