I read his text messages

Then you should be pleasing your husband's friends. Be a good wife

If your marriage is solid, go for it. After about 20 years, I had fantasies about mine with other men. On our 34th anniversary, she did and we have been playing with a few FWB (men and women) ever since. It's been great for our relationship and an awesome time.

They are planning something for tonight

This is the 21st century sexual perversion and no self respecting husband or wife should consider this nothing more than some fantasy. The guys are using you as jerk off material and perhaps so is your husband. Guarantee you they are watching too much porn, especially gang bang and DP shit. For anyone contemplating going beyond the fantasy stage I say take a reality check. Who ever in their right mind would ever want to get married if this is what they want their sex to be? Whores and druggies are out there for those guys that will put their dicks into any holes that move.

I think I agree with you, but I don't watch alot of porn and when I do I do not prefer the harder stuff.

Of course it aint gay yer feckin idiot.

You don't think it's gay to put your dick in a woman that has another guy's cum in her

He probably texted them pictures of them too.

It's just a man thing honey that turns a lot of us married men on. Listen, me and my wife have been married for 40 years, and to this day I still want to share her. Love the visual of watching another mans dick sliding in and out of her hairless pussy and then to watch his seed flood her pussy and drip out once he pulls out.....OMG, what a turn on!

Wow okay

Tell us one of the text messages you read or more

I read how they want to get me drunk and do the double sex thing to meHis friend keeps commenting on how he wants to do it in my butt holeOf course he's using different words than I am right now

He's bored of you. he is trying to spice things up and I'm guessing that if you find his texts gross then your a prude and he wants to change that

I have never said no to any kinky sex things he's ever brought up not once ever. The things he's asked me to do in the past I don't believe are all normal

Maybe he just gets off on the thought of that. I do it and in turn my friend does the same with his wife. Now if he ask you to do it you have the power to turn it down. You should be flattered that he finds you so hot that he is willing to share you and see you in total pleasure even if its not him. My wife knows that i would love to share her but she is not for it and i respect that. Sometimes fantasies are just that. No nees to get offended by it or even disgusted. Think about it. In a way he wants you to be his porn star. But again dont do it if you dont want to.

Don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Not every person wants to have sex with people outside their marriage . If you are someone who doesn't that should be the end of it.

It is common. I love my wife a lot but I also love the idea of sharing her with my friends and I am not gay. He may just love the idea of seeing you in total sex bliss! It is very erotic in my mind. My wife knows I would love to share her and even if we have not done it, it GTS her super horny to role play

So you two pretend to be others , that would be okay with me. But all the things I read in the text messages are pretty hard core I would be embarrassed to let them do all that.

And what you feel comfortable doing is totally up to you. It's your call all the way.
Again I think you should bring this up with your husband. I suspect he wanted you to find his text messages anyway to judge your reaction to the ideas. It is a safer way to broach the subject than saying "hey honey, how about I bring my friends over for a gangbang?"
Whatever you wind up deciding to do, it should be something you have discussed with him beforehand so there is no question as to what should happen.
I don't like the idea of him getting you drunk to try to prevent you making an informed and conscious decision about it.

When I found the picture of me bending over the bedroom dresser with my fresh shaved cunt & booty cheeks had been shared with my husband's friend, I was upset. But when I read his friend's comments about me, It excited me. When my husband shared the text that his friend admitted that he masturbated while looking at me & described how much he ejaculated, it made me so horney.

I m all for sharing when it arouses both parties an if not when you role play add more stimulation to her special areas to enhance her feelings of taking multiple cocks for the team

So did you go the next step & fuck with his friend?