She wants a gift back
We were friends and lovers years ago. She gave me a gift back then. Recently she asked me if I still had it, yes I said. Can I have it back she asked, I said if it would make you happy, yes. The issue I have is I've been asking her for sex, I'm divorced she's not but her marriage sucks. She said her husband isn't fucking her and wanted to divorce her, when she told me that I said how much I wanted her and I wanted her sexually again. She's always had a very impressive desire for sex, she was sexually insatiable since I've known her. She turned me down but said "someday I really would love to fuck you again". I crave her like no one else, no one could ever take her place. She want's that gift back said it would make her very happy to have it back. Am I going too far telling her she has to make me happy too for me to want to give it back?
That's a sure fire way to insure she will never have sex with you again.
You're more likely to score with her if you give the gift back graciously, instead of extorting sex from her.