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I have to beg for it
Women wonder why their husbands cheat on them, I feel like I have to constantly be the one who initiates love making. We made love this year sometime in March, I decided afterwards that I would keep up the hugging, kissing and telling her I loved you just as if nothing was wrong. I wanted to see how long it would take for her to initiate something. Well it is late December and nothing. She actually told me through no inquiry from me that she just no longer had the urge to have sex, I think that was in August some time. I then learned that intercourse for the past two years or so has not been very comfortable for her unless she was extremely turned on. Well no worries there as we have not had intercourse for quite some time.
So I guess I will just keep watching porn and pleasuring myself, feels like high school all over again.
I am 24 married for 4 years and to start with my husband was a great lover but the past 7 months he's only made love to me 5 times and the last time was 3 weeks ago. He's either to tired from work or just not in the mood even when I suck his dick he still wont fuck me. He even wont do anal and he's the one years ago that got ne liking it.
Well I've never strayed but I am surely thinking about it now.
My wife is somewhat different. She wants sex but Its often late at night when I'm tired because I've been up since 530 am, worked all day then ran 3 miles after work and its now 1230 am. The fact she works crappy hours for even crappier pay the stress is bad. When I want it she doesn't and vice versa. We are not compatible and its killing our sex life.
Never beg for sex with your wife if the bitch wont open her legs boot her out and get a nice lady that likes getting licked and fucked .
Fully understand. My now-ex wife had little interest in sex, I was lucky to have it with her maybe every few months..Four or so, and even that was all-me as she laid there like a slug. Got to a point where even a stupid goodbye kiss before work in the morning was like pulling teeth with a butterknife.
So, yeah, I did the self-pleasure thing, and, when opportunity presented or I pursued another woman, cheated on her and fulfilled my sexual needs elsewhere. Business group friend became a FWB, and we both understood what it was..Two people, who got along well, were incredibly physically attracted to each other (we still are), and enjoyed the occasional romp in bed. The occasional, wild sex with her more than leveled out my lack of anything at home. Weird thing was, with her, anyway, she has the same body type now that my ex wife used to have, years ago, is also blonde, and very into me during sex. As in, how it once was, years ago, with my ex.
Other woman I messed around with was a hot, slender, Latino nurse woman. Probably the steamiest, smoking-hot woman I've ever known. Just..Ooozed sex.
Get your pleasure wherever you can. We all have needs.
Count on a female viagra to satisfy you. Its almost there...I think some of the versions are already availible. Also you could try counselling.
Well im a single woman in her early 20s and i regularly meet ikder men in there 40-50s for sex and i hear the same story all the time, sex once a month if they are lucky, next to no blowjobs given and no spice lust or even fun seems to be involved and yet, when the man is caught, such shock from the woman and he is the biggest shit ever! iv been called all sorts names and such yet im sorry! suck his dick more often and he wont stray, i will eventually settle down but i will always remember my own rules and previous life lessons
I'm 40. My wife is 49. She is just not into sex. I am. I have a male sex partner on the side now. Wife wont give head or have sex? I go to my gay lovers house after work. Simple.
I'm on the other guy side as my older married dad comes to see me once a week and we have great sex. His wife knows me and seems to be ok with it. I still date women but lately tired of all the crap you have to do just to get some sex. Not with the hassle as I'm seeing it. Guys can have sex for just the fun of it and feeling good. Women get too damm emotional about it.
Not all women! My husband is the emotional time. I just like to be fucked. I get that need filled by other men.
Yes well women wonder why men in their 50s cheat well this is it. No affection from their wives and begging just for a blowjob or handjob.
My wife had a hysterectomy after our last kid was born. Sex drive dropped from several times a week before (even when pregnant) to once a month after. Fast forward 18 years and I'm lucky to get laid 4x/year. I told here I needed more and would do anything to help get her in the mood, she just said she had no interest. So I told her, either she could put out or I would step out. She told me to find it where I could so I've been using dating sites and Craig's List for the past 2-years and have a different piece of ass every single week. I still love my wife, but there are needs porn just doesn't fill.
I scanned through these comments looking for mention of thyroid problems but didn't notice anything mentioned. This could be a factor. Decreased sexual desire and sometimes physical discomfort. Also goes along with being tired all the time, and even depression like symptoms. May want to get that checked out. It can causemother issues too, like anemia. My wife had these issues, lack of sex drive, and once this was addressed, it did get better.
That makes me feel bad. I satisfy my husband and other people's husbands too. I have enough to go around even though I am of that age when many women stop wanting sex. I still love it and I love being wanted.
Its just a wife keep her legs shut and then they wonder why men go eslwhere for a lick and a ride .