It isn't Cheating if your Husbands knows.
My Husband is 19 years older than me. He has a "hang-up" that he can not satisfy me enough to keep me happy. Nothing could be further from the truth. Last year while on Holiday this young stud was hitting on me. I admit I flirted back but it was totally innocent. Well one thing lead to another and with the encouragement (and many drinks) from my Husband I agreed. I ended up in the young stud's room doing the "wild thing" when his room mate walked in on us.
Now my Husband is disappointed I don't want to do it again. I don't think I cheated.
You didn't cheat. If he didn't watch I guarantee he jacked off thinking about it.
No he didn't watch, but we did have some great sex talking about it later.
You didn't cheat. Did your husband watch?
My best buddy (we're in our 40s) recently asked me if I wanted to fuck his wife (they got married in their late 30s). It was a kink of his, and we've known each other for decades as best friends. I'm also far more fit than he is and his wife liked my looks. She was up for it. She was also beautiful for her age--very small tits, but great body and face. She looks like is was 28, not 40.
I've been married 18 years, and had never been with another woman. And what red-blooded male turns down pussy? I was curious about what someone else would feel like. I said "yes," even though I felt guilty about cheating on MY wife.
In reality, the whole thing was somewhat odd. I fucked my buddy's wife in their living room while he jerked off, but it was somewhat mechanical--no real emotions, really. We all got off, but the vibe was unusual. I'm guessing that my buddy is somewhat like your hubby--he gets aroused by knowing that you enjoy others. I believe it is more common than most people think. Btw, my wife, although not as attractive, is a far better fuck than my buddy's wife. Lesson learned.
From the woman's point of view I must agree my Husband is a much better Lover. The kid was too rough. He was a complete Gentleman until we started to have sex. My Husband always tries to make me feel good. This kid was only interested in hearing me tell him how deep he was and how much I enjoyed him "milking my Breasts". Listen I'm almost forty and I have a natural D cup, the last thing I need is someone pulling on my Boobs.
You didn't cheat, everyone was a knowing, willing party. I'm surprised your husband doesn't want to watch. My husband is also 20 years older than me, and LOVES to watch men fuck me. Sometimes he gets involved, but he always likes to see that moment when they cum in me.
He didn't want to watch and I don't think I really wanted him there anyway. This was the first time and I don't think there is going to be a second. He loves to hear me tell him details about this fling. The "deal" we have is that I give him details and he will not ask me to do it again. So far it has been over a year and has worked out fine. How many times have you had other men?
I know a lot of men that like to hear about their wives exploits. He's invited people to join us too many times to count. It's slowed a bit as he's aged, but still at least once every two months.
Girl! I'm 42 and just recently went back to college, I've been with my husband now for 28 yrs, when we met he was the 2nd guy that I've ever been with. And for 27 yrs I was faithful. In the past year, going to study groups and parties, lots of parties, I can honestly say I believe I've been with 58 different guys and one girl. And no regrets
Now let me ask you does he know about the 58 different guys? That's a lot in a year. I noticed at Mardi Gras this past year that more and more women were asking for a picture with me. These women were very forward, licking my nipples for the picture and I even ended up with a bite mark on one Breast. We went to a motorcycle party and one girl felt me up (Breasts) while her boyfriend took video. It really didn't do much for me but it was pretty clear Hubby was enjoying it.
I love going to bikers parties and at the Mardi Gras WOW four day blasts, the parties go on for all week but 4 days is all I can handle. After all I need my beauty sleep.