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A secret relationship
I regret that relationships are judged on very superficial matters. People wouldn't understand the relationship I currently have, and would shun us instantly.
I'm dating my half brother. We didn't know about each other until early this year (no one in my family did, not even my father who is his father too). I'm currently 34 and he is 41, so when we met it was pretty much like meeting any other stranger. To keep the story short: there was an attraction, we decided to act on it, we overcame the awkwardness, the doubts and the guilt, and are currently a couple (secretly, that is). we go on dates, we spend the weekends together, we fuck, we share the bed at his place on saturday nights.
and i love him. we love each other, i've never had a better lover in my life, and i regret that if we were to come out as a couple our families would instantly reject us (it's not fear of even trying, believe me: they're super conservative on both sides). i hat that we will probably have to love each other in secret, and that's that.
Don't tell about your relationship with your sister, after a while everybody will guess and say nothing about it
My sister and I have been living as husband and wife for the past 10+ years now. We fell in love in our teens, consummated our love one weekend while I parents were away, and have never regretted it since. When it came time for college I selected a school halfway across the country and lived on campus that first year. It was hard being away from her, but the separation taught us how much we loved each other.
When she graduated high school she chose the same school and we got an apartment off campus together to save money. At least that's what we told our parents. We both got our masters degrees, which gave us an excuse for the first five years. Now we both have good jobs, share a much larger apartment and both of us lie to our parents about dating and relationships. My mother worries I'm gay and keeps asking my sister when she's going to find a good boy and settle down, give them grand children.
I spent five wonderful college years living in SF with my aunt. My mother thought it would be a safe alternative to living on campus and figured her single sister would help keep me in order. Little did mom realize her saintly, single, sister was really a hedonistic lesbian who enjoyed saphic orgies in her living room. It didn't take long before she talked me into trying women; she introduced me to so many things from fingers, tongues and toys, to strap ons, 3-somes, and more-somes. Those years working on my masters degree were some of the most liberating, adventurous, and eye opening of my life.
I have been living with my stepfather for the past eighteen years. As far as anyone here knows we're husband and wife - he just tells people he robed the cradle. I was 14 when he married my mother and before you start with anything it was a normal father/daughter relationship until my mother died from a heart attack when I was 17. It started slow, and was more an extension of the love that had grown over the years. In fact, sex was really the culmination of our love, not the start. When it was time for me to go to college we sold the house and moved to a coastal town, bought a great condo right on the beach and started telling everyone we were married. We even bought rings and had a ceremony on the beach with our new friends. I'm 32 now, and we're very much still in love.
You are having a incestuous relationship which happens more often than you think, nobody will openly talk about family incest because its a taboo and immoral subject, from what you have posted I can not see anything wrong with what you are doing, you have got rid of the guilt which is good, if you come out you could be shunned, it might make your relationship awkward,
I am speaking from experience, I think I would be inclined to keep quiet about it, it can be more exciting keeping it secret, hope this helps
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