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How to tell my husband I want him to take me hard?
I have a very loving husband, very gentle and I love our lovemaking. However I want him to forcibly ass rape me and I don't know how to tell him. To start, he has suggested he would like to try anal but I have always told him no. I want it but I want it dirty, nasty and rough.
Before we met I was involved with a man who was very aggressive. We had been having sex for a few months when he told me in his words "I want to throw you down and fuck you in the ass and I want you to beg me to do it" The idea at first was a bit much but the more I thought about it the more it turned me on.
He had always been strong and forceful. He never went any further than I allowed but the more we dated the more he became demanding and I liked it. One night we where alone at his place in bed and he told me to turn over and stick my ass in the air. I was an anal virgin and it scared me knowing how it must hurt but I so wanted to try, I so wanted to submit to his needs.
I did what I was told, my face was in a pillow and my ass was in the air and I was trying to prepare myself. Then he told me to reach around and pull my ass cheeks apart which I did. He then told me to ask him to fuck me in the ass. I said it but he wanted me to say it louder. I had to almost scream it then he grabbed my hair pulled my head back and stuck his cock in my ass. It hurt like hell but he didn't seem to care. His weight pushed me flat on the bed and he went at it.
Laying there taking it I began to enjoy feeling like I was surrenduring to his needs like an animal. He could pound away for a long time and I expected a long session but he came really quickly and pulled out. There was no affection, no feelings just being used for his pleasure. After that first time he did it very often. Once he pulled over alongside the road and pushed me against the passenger seat and did it to me right there. After he was done we just got in and drove like nothing happened.
Now I want my husband to do the same thing. I want him to come in in the middle of the night and get on top of me. I want him to pull my panties down and force it up my ass while I beg for him to stop.
I don't know how to tell him this. I do not know if I want to, will he still respect me? He thinks I am an anal virgin and I have no intention of ever telling him I am not. How do I tell him his proper sweet housewife was someones slut who allowed a guy to ass fuck her whenever he wanted to.
Kicker is he knows that guy really well. And once at a party the guy came up to me and whispered in my ear that he still thought about how I squirmed when he stuck his cock in my ass. That got me so turned on I could barely wait to get husband home and screw him. The thing is i wanted anal and vaginal that night just would not do it.
What do I do?
My problem is he (husband) does not do it enough ..hammering my pussy which is good just not always the ass 😔
Mmmm got me
I finally got up the courage to tell him how I truly wanted it. The idea turned him on. That night like any other night I went to bed before he did and fell asleep. He woke me up later by getting on top of me and pulling my panties down.
It was dark and I could not even tell who it was which was a turn on. All I could do was lay there and tell him to please be gentle, then he said he would fuck my ass anyway he wanted and I didn't have any say in it.
He started pushing it in and I guess I squirmed a bit but he held me down and continued pushing in. I said just stop for a second and let me relax and he said shut the fuck up and rammed it all the way in hard.
I never expected this level of treatment from him. He was rough and uncaring. He just used me without any consideration. I felt helpless, I knew no matter what I said or did he would continue until he was finished. He usually can hold off for a long time but he seemed like he was just going to pound as hard as he could and get off as fast as he could which he did.
He just rolled off after he was done and went into the bathroom to clean up. I laid there a bit confused. I really like the treatment but I was afraid how it would change our relationship. He came back to bed and cuddled with me and the next morning all seemed the same until I went in to shower.
He got in with me and actually pushed me down and told me to suck his cock! I did and when I put it in my mouth he grabbed my head and held it while he pumped my mouth until he came. Since then I have been treated more like his sex slave to be used however and whenever he wants.
I LOVE IT.
Last night he told me he wants to let a friend fuck me?
I can't tell you how many 20-something girls I've run into that are into rough sex with an older (42yo) guy. I think it's the limp dick metrosexual world we live in today. In our modern world women just don't experience strong alpha-males on a general basis. They're starving for strong male attention and think that rough sex is what that means. Living life 160 characters at a time. No matter the cause I get tons of great sex from some ridiculously beautiful girls that I didn't have a chance with 20 years ago.
Same here. I'm in my 40s, and regularly get the 20-somethings who work at the sports bar I go to. They're so willing, and into the physical stuff. Can toss their little bodies around in bed, and they eat it up. You may be onto something with the metrosexual thing.. I've had a lot of these girls tell me they like men, and not guy their own age.
I to had a BF that use to take me when ever he wanted or the both of us and one time of many he'd throw me down rip my clothes off of me and fuck my ass hard till he'd cum in me. I loved it even the time when three other guys took their turn with me at River Side Park at 3 in the morning . All three fucked me bare back and all three gave me their cum one twice and he had a whopper of a cock and I took all 8 inches of him and gave him my phone number with a note Call Me.
He called me the following day and we met at the same spot in River Side Park just after it got dark and all three did me again and Ron the one who has the cock I love so much did me three more times filling my puss and my ass with his cum. The others pulled out at the last moment and shot their cum all over my body, but not Ron for he told me he was going to be the father of my baby as he continued to fuck me hard.
Ron followed me home and the next morning he walked in as I was getting myself a cup of coffee he startled me and I dropped the cup into the sink as he took my bathrobe off of me threw it to the floor and bent me over the edge of the counter and shoved his hard cock right into me and fucked me hard harder than he has before and 20 minutes later he was still going at me then he started to stiffen and he let out a beller that appeared to come from the bottom of his stomach and he pumped more cum into me than he ever has before and he held himself deep in me kissing my neck and telling me you're going to have my son for sure and held me close to him. That day we must have fucked 8 times and each time was like before but it took him longer to cum than the time before and the last time I swore he must have cum half a cup in me.
Offer him dat ass!
You've got to go slow, at least at first. You can't go from Anal Virgin to him pounding your ass over night. Start with some anal play and then work your way into it.
I'll take you hard....flip you over then grab your hair to pull your neck back and then take you hard in the ass using the other hand to finger your clit. My heavy wet breath on your cheeks. Is that what you want.
Melting
Reverse cowgirl is the way to go
Oh girl I'm there, too. My hubby and I play pony. He's the rough cowboy and I'm the naughty pony.
I love whips and Spurs and love when he yanks my head back
Try playing pony.
My wife really gets off on rough-and-tumble sex with a lot of ass play. The first time I buttfucked her, she'd been on top of me in a 69. Before I could cum from her sucking my cock, she straightened up and sat her asshole down on my mouth, telling me to eat it. I was hesitant at first because I wasn't sure how it would taste but then I found out I really liked licking her back there. She climbed off of me and got down on all fours and told me to get the Vaseline out of our bathroom. She told me to lube her asshole until I could get all four fingers inside and then mount her. I WAS SO FUCKING HARD!!! Once inside of her, she pushed back on me and told me that she wanted to me to call her names like slut, whore, cunt, bitch and to spank het HARD. I tell you I have never cum so hard in my life! Trust me...you'll be doing your husband a HUGE favor.
Since your husband has indicated his willingness to try anal with you, just let him. Stop saying no. Let him think you're still an anal virgin. After you've been doing it for awhile, then you can ease into the rougher stuff. But hold off suggesting any of that until he's inside of you. Start by telling him to grab hold of your hair while he's buttfucking you. Then ask him to start talking dirty to you. After that, see if you can't get him to slap your ass cheeks. Reassure him that all of this really turns you on because it's HIM that's doing it to you and that you just love him so much. I'd be very surprised if this approach doesn't work.