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Am I becoming a sissy
I would appreciate some genuine advise, I am a straight male who for years has worn sexy panties, bras and nighties about a year ago I started with suspenders, stockings and heels then my wife started making me up and putting on a blonde wig she also keeps my toenail's painted a bright pink we both like all of this and enjoy a fantastic sex life, recently we ordered a nice satin pink french maids outfit for me to complete my dressing for housework, some of her friends came over and I was made to model for them while embarrassing I really liked being seen and then serving drinks and munchies to their demeaning comments and asking me to bend so they could see my panties, one suggested that like her husband I should be placed in chastity he wears a plastic device called a Holy Trainer and checking the net it sounds excellent and we have ordered one and waiting for it, in preparation my wife has shaved me she says we should try to go for at least four days to start then move onto a month before I get an orgasm, her friends husband is currently on four months without but satisfies her with tongue, hands and toys, she explained that she would be the keyholder and decide when I am released for cleaning and what sex if any I get.
My question am I going too far with this ?
I think you are going to be very, very sorry you agreed to the chastity device at least you will be locked in the very best one, I had a Holy Trainer and it was so light, discreet and comfortable my wife started with only a few days but it soon blew out to monthly intervals for me to orgasm and even then she would wank me no sex before we both got a bit sick of it, really though it was a lot of fun while it lasted
Thank you for your advise I appreciate the honesty, I do enjoy the humiliation I loved modeling my maids outfit and serving the girls them being quite rude to me made me feel on top of the world, I am a little concerned about the chastity but because we are waiting for the device I now have no option I just have the feeling that while we are supposed to start off with four days my wife has advised that I will be cuffed behind and leg spreader on when released for cleaning and inspection that means she has not indicated for certain I will get to orgasm, when I brought up the subject she just said when you are locked up I and only I will determine your sexual activities so get used to that if you start on the subject you can be assured you will not be cumming for some time so I better learn to shut my mouth, she told me her friends husband is very obedient and submissive and that is how I will be
For any relationship to work in the long term, both partners need to be getting something out of it. You're satisfying her sexual needs, but are your needs being met? You obviously enjoy the dressing up. Do you enjoy the humiliation? Is it enough of a substitute for an orgasm to really keep you satisfied? If so, then go for it. Maybe you should agree on a trial period to see if it will work in the long run.
Hello, if you are both getting pleasure from this life style then it is perfectly ok. You're not becoming a sissy. You are a sissy. That's ok too!! Your life and your sex life is your business. I don't think it hurts to try chastity. If you're nervous discuss it fully with your wife before it happens. Good luck and have fun!