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Can't bring myself to taste it
When I masturbate, I watch CEI (cum eating instruction videos). Its a real turn on watching a woman tell me what to do and to taste my sperm. However, right after I orgasm, even though the thought was exciting while masturbating, i can't bring myself to do it...in fact the thought of it disgusts me after i cum.
I've tasted my semen before, my wife used to love me going down on her after sex, but sadly our sex life is a mere shadow of what it used to be due to several reasons (age, maladies, schedules, pain, etc).
I've tried to get my wife to give me the same type encouragement in real life, but she's just not that interested in sex anymore.
Any ideas on how i can get over this little hang-up? I just don't understand how something that is such as mental turn on can change so suddenly the moment orgasm occurs. Was actually thinking of seeking out the services of a professional dominatrix to "make" me complete the task.
Post ejaculatory shame is common. desire is gone after you cum. What seemed like a hot fantasy suddenly seems gross. That is common.
Cum doesn't taste good, so it's probably better that you don't want it.
I once had a girl friend that would suck me off and always want me to cum in her mouth. Then she would hold it in her mouth and spit it into my mouth when she kissed me right after me cumming. It was my cum and I didn't want to be rude and spit it out, so I would swallow it.
I squirt on the back of my hand and then make myself lick it up and swallow. It's good!
What worked for me is I saved some in a little shot glass, and just as I was going for round 2, I put the shot glass in some warm water to warm it up a bit, so it seemed like it was fresh rather than cold.
Then as I was reaching orgasm, looking down I put my mouth round the whole glass, so I could continue hands free and dip the tip of my tongue in as I was getting closer, as I reached the point of no return, I flung my head back and let it all go in my mouth swishing my cum around my tongue, and as I first started to spurt my second load everywhere I swallowed!
That way in the heat of the moment you swallow just before you loose the urge to. hope that helps you....let us know how it goes?
Learn how to "ruin" your orgasm. What that means is that you stop the stimulation right before you ejaculate. If you time it right, you'll spurt a couple of small loads of semen but you won't have a full blown orgasm. You'll stay aroused long enough to swallow it all. I recommend doing it on the gusset of your wife's panties, but that's just me...:)