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I recently just tried my hand at being dominant the other night. I'd always wanted to but never had the chance with any of the guys I'd been with. Until eventually I found a Korean man who desperately wanted to be dominated.
It was awkward at first but when things finally got going it started coming very naturally. I had a lot of fun and he seemed to be in nirvana.
Basically it was just a neck tie around his neck pulled tight and scratching and biting him a over. Riding him while he wore a blind fold and biting his ass. He said he wants to try more hardcore things and so do I. But I don't watch porn or know too much about that sort of thing.
What are good ideas to try? Techniques? Which kind of toys are better then others? Would be appreciated if you could help with my questions.
I certainly think him getting it in the bum would be terrific, have him cuffed and a spreader on his legs down doggy fashion then go that arse with everything flog him, put butt plugs, dildos and vibrators in not to forget having a large strap on and root him silly, he just has to wear sexy female panties and bras all the time, enjoy yourself darling
You should try some anal toys on him. Most guys who want to be dominated want some anal play. Start with a small size dildo, use plenty of lube. He might want to be feminized, you could try putting him in panties and a bra and see if he likes it. You'll just have to try this stuff and see if he gets turned on by it.
Take things slow and allow the anticipation to build. For example blindfold him and just leave him that way for a few minutes. Don't touch him or speak to him. Then tease him and work your way into the things you want to do. You can have a ton of fun doing this but you should talk with him and set boundaries and a safe word that either of you can use if things start to get out of hand.