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Lied to my husband
I had sex with 17 guys before I got married. I was 25 years old when I got married, of course I didnt want my husband to think I was a slut so I told him it was 5. However now I feel kinda bad because its like I started my entire marriage with a lie. I dont know what would happen if I tell him the truth.
That's too bad you didn't feel like he was someone you could feel safe with. Feeling safe with your partner and being able to share things like that without fear of judgment or being shamed, opens up a level of intimacy that in turn opens up the ability to explore and possibly live out some pretty fun sexual adventures
He than knows your a lair and probably can't trust you.
When I married at 21, i've had sex with 12 guys. One of them was my Grandpa. I told my husband it have been 2 before him.
My present boyfriend knows I was a bit promiscuous when I was younger but still accepts my past, I'm so lucky.
Some guys can handle your past, some guys can't.
My wife had sex with 26 guys and I respect her honesty
You sound like a very understanding guy.
How would telling him anything at all improve your marriage? It might take a load off your conscience (you a Catholic by any chance?) but can do nothing but destroy your marriage.
Don't tell him. He'll think you were a little slut before you married him. We all tell lies (Yes, dear, you made me cum with your big manly cock.) so just keep this one to yourself.
First of all he should not have ask. Second most marriages are a lie, so hold your tongue. If the sex is good to him, its because you have experience, bad sex is a downer, he married you so you must can keep his dick happy.