Too honest
My girlfriend and I are both single parents. When we met it was when we both went back to college and we were older. One thing we both enjoyed was each other's honesty. Everything has been going well when I asked her about her past, specifically her lovers size. It was the first time she hesitated. After telling her I was sure I wanted to know, she informed me I was the smallest she had ever been with. Of course this hurt my ego and I had to ask by how much. Her first boyfriend was 8 1/2 inches. She had measured him and confessed she was overly proud of his size when she was young. The father of her child was, "around seven."
After awhile I was able to cope but recently two events have bothered me. The first was a guy she went on a date with when she first moved here sent her a random dick pic. She told me about it and showed me that she didn't respond and didn't ask for it. His dick was huge! I was the biggest my ex wife had and I never had any size issues. So that brought up everything again I felt after our size talk.
Then the baby daddy came into town recently and invited us to bring her daughter swimming at the hotel pool. This asshole wears a speedo. I caught her multiple times looking at his bulge. And that night she was super horny and ready to have sex.
I'm really worried about my size now. Everything in relative. I feel like I'm inadequate compared to her experiences.
The important thing is that she trust's sharing this with you. You'll just have to accept the fact that she's had boyfriend's with large dick's but she's with you now and that's the important thing.
Once some girl's experience a big one it ruins them, lol.
My wife is a total size queen and has had a couple big cocks in her past. I'm happy with my cocks size and have been complemented on the girth .I have been told that I'm the perfect size, not to long to make It uncomfortable. But thick enough to fill up her pussy.But I'm not big enough for my wife's pussy. So I have bought her a couple very large size dildos and a harness for me to wear. She loves being fucked with a huge rubber cock, and I don't mind wearing It either. I love It, it's a lot of fun to stretch with all she can take.
This depends on what you want. If you really really want to keep her and even be closer, take advantage of the honesty and openess you have already. Women, contrary to what they believe themselves, are not made for intimate monogamous relationships (search "Why Do Women in Committed Relationships Lose Sexual Desire"). So, introduce the idea of swinging to her gradually (something to talk about) as something that might be good for her and something that many people say brings them closer together by sharing the experience together. Suggest listen to some swinger podcasts (We Gotta Thing, Life on the Swingset, Average Swingers, The Couple Nextdoor, The Hidden Swing, etc). If she has a desire for big cocks, even a desire she is trying to convince herself she doesn't have, she can satisfy that. Then by talking and sharing, you're strengthening your bond. Believe me, she enjoys what you give and making it loving can make that even better. Also realize that letting her had other men at times is better than having her develop an ever increasing desire that, being unsatisied, will make her move on to another guy. But be prepared. Once couples start swinging the reluctant female usually becomes the more eager one.
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