Daughter in law's panties soaked with man cum.....not my son's!
My son and his wife live at my place. I do all of the laundry (I am semi retired) and I think my sexy daughter in law had sex with someone the day after my son's birthday. She came home from visiting her mom and then supposedly going to a baseball game for her niece. As soon as she walked through the door she went into the bathroom and changed into her swimsuit and jumped in the pool as if she was trying to wash off. I found it strange that she did that so I checked her panties and they were soaked through and even her shorts were soaked through the crotch and down the legs of the shorts. She is not on the pill and she has my son use condoms. It will be interesting to see what the baby looks like if she is pregnant!
Update on my daughter-in-law: She went to the doctor because of being tired and what appears to me to be morning sickness. She is also becoming more emotional, moody, and "motherly" to her other kids, especially the baby. She said she will have the lab results for the blood tests next week.
Did the lab results show she was pregnant?
Sounds like she might well be pregnant. The blood tests will tell. Please keep us updated. I was just wondering, if she is pregnant, do you think she'll tell your son that the condom must have slipped or broke or something? If she says something like that, do you think he would be at all suspicious? If he is, do you think you will be up to helping her calm him and ease his mind over it? I hope he can see this as a blessing for everyone's sake.
I think she will basically let it ride and take the don't ask/don't tell attitude in the hope that he just goes with it. I think that's the best way too. If she is pregnant and it is not his, I will try to convince him that people make mistakes and marriage is about forgiveness. Besides, I would be happy to have another grandkid running around here whether it is his or not!
I did not say anything about what I saw but during a "future planning" discussion about additions to my house to accommodate them and their kids, I did ask them together if she was pregnant. It was not an emphatic denial but she said no. I will not say anything to my son but if she has a baby and I suspect it is not his I might have DNA testing done just to confirm. Whether the baby is my son's or not, I will treat him as my own grandchild because she is the mother of my other 3 adorable grandkids and I want her and them around for a very long time! And if my son finds that he is not the father, I will try to convince him that the best thing is to accept the child and love it as well. She is worth it!
She is a bit of a slut though.
I think that's the best course. Why disrupt a family when no practical good can come of it. You can't change what happened if indeed the child were not your son's.
A similar thing happened to my aunt who's also my best friend. She saw her son's wife having a quickie with her fitness trainer, but stayed hidden. She didn't confront her DIL, she just kept it to herself because her son and his wife got along well and they had two kids. Her DIL got pregnant, and while my aunt was never 100% sure, she strongly suspected that the child (a daughter) was the trainer's because she looked a good deal like him. Also, my aunt said the date of conception seemed to line up almost exactly. My aunt said she never told anyone this but me, and when she did it was many years later.
All her grandkids are grown and successful or in college now, and her son and DIL are still married and happy. My aunt got to enjoy all her grandkids without any divorce or heartache, the kids remained in a stable home, and her son was spared the anguish of being a divorced dad who might have only seen his kids on the weekends.
Have you decided whether to do or say anything or not? Would you ever mention it to your son? If the baby is born and it isn't his, or you suspect it isn't, will you treat him or her as your own grandchild? Not judging, just wondering.