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My wife and I have been together for almost 25 years second relationship but had not got married. Typical family we had a healthy sex life in fact tried swinging a few times. We met strange enough through our ex's and that is another story. At about the 30 year mark in our relationship we decided to get married and went ahead things were great for a couple of years then my wife lost her job. She was at home and I guess getting bored I was still working in a high stress job and tired. It was then a situation started that I didn't realize for about 9 months we had stopped communicating and our sexual life had declined. I started to look at porn for my own recreation and we didn't say much to each other, when one day I noticed a new email account my wife had started. I thought it may be just for personal use but tried to guess the password and read a few messages. It was certainly a man and I knew him as she had been out with him when much younger and stayed in touch over the years.
While there was nothing really explicit in the messages it implied they had been doing other things and she had a phone so I started tracking that account down, I also search some of her private draws and found new lingerie as well as a few other items like a crop, flogger, cuffs and new dildos. There was also some nipple jewelry for which the receipt was in the email file I found out it was slave jewellery so I realized that she was involved sexually. From his past I knew of his dominant nature which she had mentioned on occasions so I put two and two together.
I then searched her phone bill it was huge texts and videos had been transferred, after a business trip I arrived home and found a vibrator in the bed it was evident she had been masturbating for him on video and talking to him. I let it go on as it was exciting and yet painful all at the same time. I, purchased a tracking device for the car and eventually it payed of she met him in a secluded parking lot where she performed oral sex on him. I did confront her after a while and she admitted to becoming controlled by him and was required to do many things on a daily basis including obeying him. Well lots more to tell but wanted to share my experience with a cheating wife yes we are still together.
I caught my wife having sex with a much younger guy than her, I found out that he worked with her and she had been tasked with showing him how the company did things,she said that she had to work late one night something that she never did, I was suspicious and went to her office,I couldn't believe what I saw, my wife was being fucked on her desk by a guy in his 20's! She was 46 at the time, she was loving it and he loved it just as much especially when she told him to fuck her arse!
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I have to ask. Does the fact that your wife has become another man's slave get you horny? Is she still seeing him? And does some part of you like it?
She is still seeing him I didn't stop it as I wanted to figure out everything they were doing and yes it does excite me strange enough to know that she is being so submissive to him, I have put a tracker in the car so now know where they meet. We are not as sexually active together but at least it is exciting who know where this will lead? Thanks for the comment